"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Me and the mall are over man. So what are some other good places to approach?

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ElStud

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After tonight, I realized something, it's just not worth it approaching chicks in the mall. 75% of the time you're walking around looking for chicks and when you finally see a decent looking one, you have to ****ing power walk to catch up with her; not my style at all. And when you DO approach that girl, it's probably going to suck anyway. The only good way to approach at the mall is really talking to girls who work there or girls looking at clothes or something, moving targets are not worth it. And yeah dude, I'm fed up with it, I've been going to the mall like 1 or 2 times every week and I'm hardly improving at all. I tried to convince myself today that the mall didn't suck for approaching girls, but tonight proved yet again that it sucks for approaching girls. Like I said, most of the time you're just walking around, you don't see anything to approach, you just walk around. Sorry, but I can walk around in my neighborhood, I go to the mall to approach chicks.

I went up to this one chick and I was like "Hey, how's it going? I'm doing a music survey and I wanted to know what kind of music, do you like?" and from when I say "Hey, how's it going?" chicks all avoiding me, so I plow and keep going and she's all like "I'm not interested" and say "Why aren't you interested?" she's all "Sir!". And that's the majority of mall approaches man, whereas I can usually get somewhere with that with a standing target, moving targets suck. Most of the time they don't even give you a f*cking chance, like this b*tch.

So me and the mall, we're done, finished, I'm never going to the mall to approach women again. And because of that, I want to know, what are some other good places to approach women?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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aussiegoat55

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Um, how bout track meets? Oh yeah, that didn't go over too well either.
 
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Girls just hate you man. Your ugly, you can't talk to girls--just face it. I mean I always use the "music survey" and it works like a charm....I mean, I used it 100 times and it worked every time...

NOT! I remember telling you to throw that opener away, but hey what do I know? I guess I suck with girls too, cuz you just don't listen to anyone...Why bother posting on this board? And the malls are good, you just gotta find the right opportunity. I've gotten a few numbers at the mall, you just gotta pick out the right woman and at the right opportunity. Keep it up, I guess. But seriously, stop with the routines man. Be yourself. Your being fake and it's so easy to see it.
 

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Don't go out with the purpose of sarging.
 

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Chicks Just Dig Me said:
Girls just hate you man. Your ugly, you can't talk to girls--just face it. I mean I always use the "music survey" and it works like a charm....I mean, I used it 100 times and it worked every time...

NOT! I remember telling you to throw that opener away, but hey what do I know? I guess I suck with girls too, cuz you just don't listen to anyone...Why bother posting on this board? And the malls are good, you just gotta find the right opportunity. I've gotten a few numbers at the mall, you just gotta pick out the right woman and at the right opportunity. Keep it up, I guess. But seriously, stop with the routines man. Be yourself. Your being fake and it's so easy to see it.
Yeah, you're right man. In 7th Grade at my old school, I use to have tons of girls around me and I was even popular at once, you know why? Because I didn't give a f*ck. When I moved to my new school in 8th I had no friends for the whole year and I guess that's what started developing my whole caring attitude. If I could just stop giving a f*ck I can become the guy I once was in 7th grade, hell, I can become better than that guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There are countless threads about where to approach girls. And the answer is pretty much anywhere and everywhere. Do a search.
 
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