"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Me and the cleaning lady...

pjtheman

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Gangster Of Love said:
Put on a Vladimir Putin mask, and sarge on!!!!
lol, that has to be one of the most rasist yet funny things i've ever heard.

but to the OP, learn a bit of russian, and also lear how to ask if she speaks english and if she does you're ready to sarge!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eaglez1177

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alright thanks alot guys, i'll post back and let you know how it goes.
 

eaglez1177

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haha alright man we'll see ;)
 
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