"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Me and my teacher

DonJuanit0

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So, I have this teacher I met today in our first lesson in univ. We are about 15 students in the classroom. She is like HB 9!! She is about 25 and I am 20 years old... I know it's kinda difficult to try something with a teacher of yours, I guess you all can see why is that! Even though I think I have some chances with her so for today I kept eye contact with her way too much time and she was staring back a lot, like it was normal (prolly it was for her, I don't know). At some point while we were staring each other she lost her words so that made me calm a bit and let her teach, I thought I was the problem for that loss (or wanted to be me). Anyway she came close to as outside of the class, stood next to me and started talking to us... All the time I kept a mysterious face, talked rarelly and only to say something good in the class and out of it.
There is also this other guy who was coming all the time in our classroom just to be with that teacher! Everyone even the teacher have understand he is such an AFC, but he is no threat for many reasons... I was even able to use him and made myself seen as wise (from what I said at some point anyway). So, this is the thing... Any advice? Anyone has something similar to this and can guide my moves? She is a teacher and I am a student...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A little background is necessary here. I'm a GTA (graduate teaching instructor), which I'm guessing is your instructors position. She seems a bit young to be a professor, so she is likely a graduate student still, like myself. We are not allowed to see (f*ck or date) current students, but we can mess around with former students. GTAs and TAs are constantly doing this, but it must be initiated by the student. The one former student I boinked contacted me through facebook. She showed interest, so I invited her out.

You need to go to her office hours often. Make these meetings enjoyable not just for you, but for her. Read her body language during these meetings and in class to get clues if she is attracted to you. If you think she is then make a move when the quarter/semester is over. Good luck!
 

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"All the time I kept a mysterious face, talked rarelly"

"I kept eye contact with her way too much time and she was staring back a lot"

Sounds like you're being a weirdo stalker who is creeping her out.
 

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hahaha, maybe she got freaked out during class and choked. That may have been where the pause came from.
 

DonJuanit0

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haha! No, I know how to keep an eye contact and and all that staff! Trust me she wasn't freaked out, she wouldn't talk to me in the class or came next to me during break! :) Btw, thanks ucmed I'll stick to this for now and I guess w8 for the semester to end...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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