Let me first start off by saying that I analyze things a lot and a lot of the times it doesn't answer anything, it rather brings up more questions.
When it comes to girls I think about most of the situations I am put in and I analyze them to see if there are any hints at whether this girl wants me or doesn't or I don't know this is just something that I do.
Well on top of me analyzing, I'm not quite good at choosing what the situation means which is why I'm writing here. I have a situation I was just put in last night that I've been analyzing for a little and I just can't decide if I should just stop and just go with the flow or try to get something out of it...Why don't you guys decide? ha...Okay here it is.
I've hooked up with this 1 girl like 4 or 5 times within the past 3 months. Nothing really evolved from it because after we would spend a night together something either came up like she was going home for the rest of the weekend or I had 3 tests the next week and coudln't go out for the rest of the weekend. I don't know but whatever.
So here I was last night drinking in my room getting ready to go to the bar when my friend suggests that we go check out this party, so we went. I walk in and start saying my hellos to everyone when I see her...It was kind of shocking to be hoenst because I didn't know she was going to be there. Anyway, I start spitting some game but not too much because I didn't feel like wasting my whole night trying to game this girl after I've had her a few times ya know. Keep in mind I DO kind of like this girl a little.
So I ended up coming back to my place (this all went down in an apartment complex) and continued to drink before the bar. Me and my friend were literally walking out of the door when I see this girl and 4 of her friends running to my room because 1 of them hurt their fingers (the one who hurt her fingers is my roomate's girlfriend). So my roomate tells me to just go to the bar he doesn't need my help so I listend. We got down into the lobby and we walked outside and we decided it was too cold and that we were just gunna go drink and chill in my room. So we go back up there and all of them are in there. Now the night goes on with taking care of this girl. There was another one who was passed out on my couch and I had to carry her onto my bed etc etc.....over all pretty eventful evening.
So pretty much I hardly payed any attention to this girl whcih I guess is a good thing. But heres where the analysis comes in...As shes leaving to go home she pulls me over gives me a kiss on my lips and goes text me tommorow and then gave me another kiss on the lips. Now I don't know if I should be texting her or what the deal is. Keep in mind this girl is intoxicated as am I. So I pretty much don't know what to do....Do I listen to her and text/call her? Do I play the "hard to get" card and make no contact what so ever? I just am lost here and I could definately use a little direction from you guys so hook it up.
When it comes to girls I think about most of the situations I am put in and I analyze them to see if there are any hints at whether this girl wants me or doesn't or I don't know this is just something that I do.
Well on top of me analyzing, I'm not quite good at choosing what the situation means which is why I'm writing here. I have a situation I was just put in last night that I've been analyzing for a little and I just can't decide if I should just stop and just go with the flow or try to get something out of it...Why don't you guys decide? ha...Okay here it is.
I've hooked up with this 1 girl like 4 or 5 times within the past 3 months. Nothing really evolved from it because after we would spend a night together something either came up like she was going home for the rest of the weekend or I had 3 tests the next week and coudln't go out for the rest of the weekend. I don't know but whatever.
So here I was last night drinking in my room getting ready to go to the bar when my friend suggests that we go check out this party, so we went. I walk in and start saying my hellos to everyone when I see her...It was kind of shocking to be hoenst because I didn't know she was going to be there. Anyway, I start spitting some game but not too much because I didn't feel like wasting my whole night trying to game this girl after I've had her a few times ya know. Keep in mind I DO kind of like this girl a little.
So I ended up coming back to my place (this all went down in an apartment complex) and continued to drink before the bar. Me and my friend were literally walking out of the door when I see this girl and 4 of her friends running to my room because 1 of them hurt their fingers (the one who hurt her fingers is my roomate's girlfriend). So my roomate tells me to just go to the bar he doesn't need my help so I listend. We got down into the lobby and we walked outside and we decided it was too cold and that we were just gunna go drink and chill in my room. So we go back up there and all of them are in there. Now the night goes on with taking care of this girl. There was another one who was passed out on my couch and I had to carry her onto my bed etc etc.....over all pretty eventful evening.
So pretty much I hardly payed any attention to this girl whcih I guess is a good thing. But heres where the analysis comes in...As shes leaving to go home she pulls me over gives me a kiss on my lips and goes text me tommorow and then gave me another kiss on the lips. Now I don't know if I should be texting her or what the deal is. Keep in mind this girl is intoxicated as am I. So I pretty much don't know what to do....Do I listen to her and text/call her? Do I play the "hard to get" card and make no contact what so ever? I just am lost here and I could definately use a little direction from you guys so hook it up.