"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Me and my girlfriend Never have any alone time?
- Thread starter TheDanMan
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Seriously though, 8 months you guys just kiss...
Exactly my point it's ridiculous, and recess what are we 10? lol anyway we're in highschool and i mean not Just kiss i guess we makeout to but like i said we have Nowhere. any ideas?Night-hawk said:Can't you sneak somewhere private at recess?
Seriously though, 8 months you guys just kiss...
JaegerPilot217
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wish I was a teenager again, you are lucky OPTheDanMan said:Exactly my point it's ridiculous, and recess what are we 10? lol anyway we're in highschool and i mean not Just kiss i guess we makeout to but like i said we have Nowhere. any ideas?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Stort_Brød
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instantnoodles
Don Juan
Stort_Brød said:don't you kids go out the back of the bike shed to finger the girlies any more?
In the playground under the slide :0
DonGorgon
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