"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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me and girl went to show had fun ran into her past man

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she wasnt in relationship she just told me he was side to him it was weird she wanted to say hi so yeah we all just said hi to each other he didnt seem to give a damn really i could just tell. she said she dont have feelings like that no more. do i assume she still wants him even tho she said nothins there? she said towards the end it fizzled out and she was faking it she knew him 4 yrs
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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it was weird but yeah i mean im not really sure about getting in relationship with her even tho we have lots of sex when i come over and she make dinner.
 
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