"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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me against this guy... for one girl... who will win?

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dream_fragments

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Here is the important stuff you need to know.

Me = Jock, (because of association) but I'm a skater, I write songs, but im also into sports and stuff. The music I prefer is the punky one, and rock, while my friends prefer rap and other stuff.
Im like this, because my cousin, is the one that transfered to me, all those rock, punk, skating things. While my friends made me a jock.

The other guy = skater, has a punk band, etc.

Girl: a combination, but she is more into that punk stuff.... Although she doesnt wear all those chains and stuff. She is really pretty. She has TONS of guys after her. Jock, preppy, regular, etc. IT doesnt matters, She is really pretty o_O


Well, Right now, It seems that only me and the other guy are truly trying to win her. (We are the only ones i know that she's really attracted to)

Wish me luck :) ....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Win her? Is she the prize...or are *you*?

Change your mentality or you'll never "win" her.
 
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Originally posted by dream_fragments
Wish me luck :) ....
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Goodluck?:rolleyes:


Laterz...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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girls should fight to win the man not the way round<!
 
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