Yep women don't initiate in a high value situation...
@stringpuller : If there's a
significant gap (e.g. average girl : celebrity, or very ugly and/or fat girl : attractive guy) a woman will take her shot with abandon, because she can always rationalize it away as "it was never going to happen anyway." If you're an above average dude who's ever been approached by a super fatty or post-wall woman in a bar, you've probably seen this...they go for broke because it's a long shot and they don't lose face by being rejected.
Beyond the extremes of the spectrum, women will often shrink in the moment if they perceive a man as having higher value than her. That is, they won't offer the obvious IOIs you read about on Sosuave because they're afraid to put themselves out there and get shot down. If he seems more attainable, they might.
This isn't a hard and fast rule mind you. It's something I've become attuned to more recently (and another poster apprised me of it some time ago). Sosuave posters are always talking about going for the girls who send obvious IOIs. I recommend not leaving a good chick on the table because you're just looking for cues. Those are helpful but they don't tell the whole story.
Everything is an IOI until she says no.
Really what it's made me realize is whoever is the "initiator" is irrelevant. Either way, you'll never know til you open your mouth and say hello.
PS: What the Beatles, Elvis et. al do teach us is to be awesome at something, pursue a mission with gusto and thy cup will runneth over. Maybe not to their extent but enough.