"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe Went Too Far Without Thinkin Of Consequences

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Don Juan
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Ight, so me and this chick have been dating since the 3rd soo a little over 3 weeks. Background is ive known her for almost 4 months....i went to juvi for one of those months. so we are dating and she told me from the start that it was a no sex until marriage for her, i knew she wouldnt be able2 resist and i called her on her bullsht last night and was right. we went at it for 2 hours and it was great. but now the mornin after im starting to wonder if I did the wrong thing by hookin up wit her. I took her virginity so now shes gonna be attached. What if I lose attraction with her soon? shes gonna think i played her and thats the last thing i want! help!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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