"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe we'll are AFCs

DonJuan11

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Maybe we'll are AFC's because we are on here Monday through Sunday instead of picking up girls.

Just a thought.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonRaul

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speak for yourself. Many of these guys are out there trying stuff out week in and out. I do think many people here though only read but do not apply. however, hints you read do stick with you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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this is the kind of threat designed to get attention and draw more negativity to the world of don juaning
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AFC Savior

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I'm not an AFC

here's a typical day for me (I'm bringing positivity back)

wake up 7am, go to work, make some $$, come home at 6, hit the gym, make plans to see one of my gf's at 8........meet up with her, kiss, cuddle, and just lay around in my place and have some drinks, make love to her for an hour or so and then lay in bed with her and cuddle up and make her feel even more addicted to me than she already is. Then take her home at 11:30, come home for my 15 minutes of entertainment and read an ElStud or Luke Skywalker thread.........and maybe give some advice to someone who genuinly needs it

that would be a typical day for me if it's a monday thru thursday
 

frivolousz21

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DonJuan11 said:
Maybe we'll are AFC's because we are on here Monday through Sunday instead of picking up girls.

Just a thought.

Now I understand why they have an mature mans forum
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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frivolousz21 said:
Now I understand why they have an mature mans forum
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Maybe we'll are AFC's because we are on here Monday through Sunday instead of picking up girls.

Just a thought.
Nope. Just you.
 

drak_ool

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don juan 11 get lost before i find you :trouble: :box:
seriously, i said this in another thread, go slice your wrists you ll do everyone a favor
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nouse4one

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HEY YOU! Come here dont listen to these mean mean guys! You can cry on my shoulder my little friend.
 

Nouse4one

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Just a thought maybe next time you should start off my saying "My hallucination is that...." instead of saying ..just a thought.
 
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