Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
One HB 8 Latina straight up told me I was bad in bed ( while I was inside her). Never heard from her again lol
Well to me the bigger question is, what was this HB8 doing during this time? Was she any good? Or was she just laying there judging him like a lot of women tend to do, because they sure as hell can't put any effort into it and will judge the guy's performance based on how he makes them feel.I wouldnt be loling at that bro.
That's just embarrassing.
Exactly if she had time to make those judgements, he wasn't doing it right.Well to me the bigger question is, what was this HB8 doing during this time? Was she any good? Or was she just laying there judging him like a lot of women tend to do, because they sure as hell can't put any effort into it and will judge the guy's performance based on how he makes them feel.
This all day. When a girl wants sex from you, asks to see you, puts in effort, she's truly interested versus the woman who will hangout with you , reluctantly and is always aloof.Easy way to tell is she will always be on you and available. And you can get it when you want without a lot of hurdles.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"You're so big"
"OMG! I've never cvm that hard before in my life"
"You're the best I've ever had baby"
"I lost count of how many orgasms i had"
"How in the world did you learn to do that?!"
Sound familiar?