"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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biketrials

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I do not know what to do. I may be moving soon and this girl I like keeps checking me out. I do not know how long it will be until I move but it may be as early as a month and I do not know if I should waste my time on her or not. I know she wants to go to junior prom and I do not know if I will be gone by then. I would like a relationship and not just go after girls for sex. But on the other hand I do not know if I will move at all. So should I just ask her out or should I just wait and see if I move or not. Also I really do not want to go to prom because that **** is for all of the preppy *******s at my school. Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr_rogers

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biketrials said:
I do not know what to do. I may be moving soon and this girl I like keeps checking me out. I do not know how long it will be until I move but it may be as early as a month and I do not know if I should waste my time on her or not. I know she wants to go to junior prom and I do not know if I will be gone by then. I would like a relationship and not just go after girls for sex. But on the other hand I do not know if I will move at all. So should I just ask her out or should I just wait and see if I move or not. Also I really do not want to go to prom because that **** is for all of the preppy *******s at my school. Thanks
Well... If you're moving soon, I really don't think it's worth getting involved with this girl. However, there isn't anything wrong with having a little fun, and going out to do that. You don't have to start getting intimate or having sex to have fun. I'm sure things would be just fine if you two were just to hang out together a bit. Instead of asking her on a date, just ask her if she'd like to hang out sometimes. If you decided that you want to go to the prom, then take her to the prom! It's all you, man.
 

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You should have sex with her...the night before you leave. Make sure you promise to write... hahahaa
 

Nexxus

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the night before I moved to this dump of a country I got this chic all naked in my bed touching eachother but I couldn't get my **** up so nothing happenned....
and now I missed my greatest opportunity to **** and I'm in this gay ass country where ***** comes by really rarely
 

JayCamx23

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if your not moving too far away you can still be with her. and look at the bright side...you will soon have a fresh start and have the best possible opportunity to meet girls...a NEW school. id be soooo pumped to meet a town full of new girls...good luck
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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