Maybe irreversible?

[Turgon]

Greetings to all of you. I ve been after this girl for 1 month now, showing some interest, having time together playing neg games etc. Then I lost my confidence and good mood, because of some reasons (one of them is that I started liking her 2 much and that I was afraid of a bad result), so she noticed and lost some serious amount of interest in me. At this time I made a risky move to show my cards and express my feelings but she didn't take me seriously, as if I were talking bull**** to go to bed with her and as I was interested to many women at the same time. I told her, that I wanted a chance to show her the truth and to deny some information about me in the group of friends we were together, where I had sex with 2 girls and in my opinion I handled it correclty (unfortunaly the 1 of them is very angry with me and has spoken to her).
I think I' m not an AFC (this year f.e. I had a score of 7), but sometimes I become one. We went out and she told me that nothing can be done since I had sex with these 2 girls and that she still has some feelings left from her previous relationship, but after some romantic things I did we kissed till the end of the night. When she left, she told me that she meant every word.
Yesterday, I pressed her to meet somewhere in her area for a while, because she had to leave for vacation and she told me that she was angry with me pressing her (I apologized immediatey, but I told her that I wanted to see her in any case) and that nothing has changed - we should better leave it!
We got back into the car and I changed attitude at once, being cool and neutral. And then she left very quickly without showing a thing.
I thought this was the kind of GOOD girl, which needs more persistance and interest than any-other and maybe she is and maybe my approach is very bad, so she rejects me. I have read and tried many interesting things from great PUAs and I seek some advice of you about this. Do you think that the situation can be reversed if I change attitude, gain confidence, be cool, interesting and effective again? How could I save this? I really want this girl and I am grateful to all of you at the first place (plz excuse my English )

 

[TheEdgeOf]

Alright. Now in the interest of making life as easy as possible, I'm going to tell you the best way to get yourself out of this situation. I mean, there are other ways with seemingly more desirable results, but those take time. And let's face it, your time's f*cking valuable, right? So let's not waste your valuable time with long drawn out plans with fairly poor results, okay?

So, let's get something straight; you've f*cked up. And you've fallen into a trap that I try to avoid with anyone I talk to; you've show her that she has power over you and given her control. Never give anyone in your life power over you. They will use it against you. I find the easiest way not to give up your power in a relationship is to be able to walk away from it at will. Now to the actual solution. This relationship really isn't going where you want it. So now, the only way to save it is to take the power back. The best way to do that is to walk away from it. If SHE calls you and wants to hang out, then you've managed to begin shifting the power. If she doesn't call, well then buddy, I'm sorry to tell you that she just doesn't give a sh*t. But don't fret, from what I've read so far, she still cares, just not very much because you're acting needy, start being more independent.

I'm pressed for time and am not going to reread this so if they're any mistakes/things that don't make sense, use your imagination.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

You knew the rules, and you knew that you broke some of them. Things are the same whether you're dealing with a nice girl or a bad girl. The common response to a post like this is to just not contact her (as Edge said). You can even try ignoring a call or two and seeing what happens.