maybe i was a little bit TOO alpha male?

[WC2]

to make a long story short, i've been talking to this girl who i've hooked up with a few times. anyways, things got a little sour when I didn't call her for a week, but now i feel shes actually enjoying the chase (just take the assumption that she digs me). anyways, i was at a party lastnight and she just HAPPEND to show up, what a coincidence. this girl is 9/10 so shes got guys coming up to her all the time. basically, i was the life of the party, talking to every girl there, getting pecks on the cheek and ass grabs from numerous girls there. i made sure to work some kino on this girl i've been talking to by giving her a little nudge on her waist/behind whenever passing by her, but i think i sorta made the mistake of ignoring her too much.

she left with her friends, and purposely told her friend to come up to me to tell me that they were all leaving (obviously trying to get me to follow her out the door). like a true DJ, i said alright ladies have fun. she hesitated at the door for another few minutes, and finally left. i called her, only to recieve a call back this morning.

when she called, i took the initiative and told her that we should hang out today. she asked if i wanted to hang out with her friends, and i gave her an affirmative NO, i want to hang out just with you. anyways, the girl will call me back later and we will hang out (im thinking movie at my place).

Questions:
1. would it be a good idea to get a little ****y and kiss her right off the bat?
2. should i call her out on being stubborn and trying to play games lastnight or should i just ignore the negatives?

thanks

 

[Capitol39]

Questions:
1. would it be a good idea to get a little ****y and kiss her right off the bat?
2. should i call her out on being stubborn and trying to play games lastnight or should i just ignore the negatives?

thanks

1. Go for it. I don't know about the whole "right off the bat" part, like she gets out of her car and you run up and kiss her, but you should definitely do it after the evening has progressed a little.

2. No. Not unless you do it in a joking way. You were playing games too, for Christ's sake.

 

[Caveman]

Questions:
1. would it be a good idea to get a little ****y and kiss her right off the bat?
2. should i call her out on being stubborn and trying to play games lastnight or should i just ignore the negatives?

thanks

1. Like capitol said, don't go kissing her right off the bat, but create a moment first.
2. Don't call her out on trying to play games, because, really, you were the one trying to play games. I mean, the whole night you ignore her, and the next day you call her and tell her you wanna hang out with her exclusively.
Ofcourse I don't know about you and her getting a little sour but from your description of this particular night, she wasn't really playing games..

 

[blinkwatt]

Questions:
1. would it be a good idea to get a little ****y and kiss her right off the bat?
2. should i call her out on being stubborn and trying to play games lastnight or should i just ignore the negatives?

thanks

1.You played it well,very well. Like everyone else said,wait built up some kino and see how she responds to that and work from there.
2.Never bring up any subject that could potentially be sour,or make for putting some one in a bad mood. I think more emphasis should be put on this.

 

[KarmaSutra]

1.You played it well,very well. Like everyone else said,wait built up some kino and see how she responds to that and work from there.
2.Never bring up any subject that could potentially be sour,or make for putting some one in a bad mood. I think more emphasis should be put on this.

I would give her acupuncture up her dirtchute.