“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pandora

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This article from Devilking2x has really opened my eyes


I often end up in toxic relationships with hot women. This article explains it. As a man that is decent looking and open to approaching women you often end up with " crazy girls". This is selection bias. The more quality women are very tough to get even for quality men. If you want high body counts you will end up with mostly beautiful crazy chicks.

I am also realising that if you have had sex with 35+ women then you are broken on some level too. We attract what we are. Yes a male slut is functional but that does not mean that he is totally psychologically healthy.

Instead of aiming for the very few "quality" girls I decided to take the easy route. The constant rejection from the more sexually selective girls is draining. They dont reciprocate attention. If they do then its friendzone city.

Maybe I have never been high quality enough to keep the pretty unicorn. I have to accept this reality.

To be fair these unicorns are extremely rare. If you were not an Chad in your early 20s then you will be fighting for the leftovers.
 

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I don't feel a guy banging lots of girls necessarily means there is something wrong with him. If you do it for validation, addicted to the drama, etc then sure you have issues. I do think you can enjoy women and the pleasures of their bodies in a healthy manner.

Sure the majority of hot women are not exactly mentally stable. There are so many skills you don't develop when you're an attractive woman. Society gives you a free pass, and puts you on a pedestal.

Hot women that are mentally stable are extremely rare. I'm going to say its less than 7% of the female population. They are usually in relationships and when they aren't they don't stay on the market very long.

High notch count for women is not the same equivalent for men. Men develop skills and traits to attract women. The guy actually has to put in the work. All a woman has to do is drop her pants and bend over. Its why women with lots of sexual partners are wh0res, and men with lots of sexual partners are congratulated/respected. Something that comes easy is never respected.

I've learned thru the years that as I increased my SMV, I was able to date hotter girls, and also less crazy girls. A guy does need an exit plan. Its not healthy to keep banging hot-crazy chics forever.

I once asked one of my hot/crazy girlfriends about why her type often gravitated to me. She told me because they valued the stability, and comfort I brought, something like a father figure. Most of the time they were daddy's girls.
 
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This article from Devilking2x has really opened my eyes


I often end up in toxic relationships with hot women. This article explains it. As a man that is decent looking and open to approaching women you often end up with " crazy girls". This is selection bias. The more quality women are very tough to get even for quality men. If you want high body counts you will end up with mostly beautiful crazy chicks.

I am also realising that if you have had sex with 35+ women then you are broken on some level too. We attract what we are. Yes a male slut is functional but that does not mean that he is totally psychologically healthy.

Instead of aiming for the very few "quality" girls I decided to take the easy route. The constant rejection from the more sexually selective girls is draining. They dont reciprocate attention. If they do then its friendzone city.

Maybe I have never been high quality enough to keep the pretty unicorn. I have to accept this reality.

To be fair these unicorns are extremely rare. If you were not an Chad in your early 20s then you will be fighting for the leftovers.
Right. That's it. It's over for the Chadicorncells.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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