"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maybe girls you have awesome sex with are not meant to be your LTRs

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Maybe girls you have a more normal sex life with give you the stability required for an LTR. Maybe I am wrong, but I wanna know the thoughts of other DJs here for sure.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maybe girls you have a more normal sex life with give you the stability required for an LTR. Maybe I am wrong, but I wanna know the thoughts of other DJs here for sure.
But than the girl you LTR wouldnt be satisfying so you would cheat?

You from Albany? You probably know the 70s singer Joe Dassin (Hungary American who made à carer in French, especially France)... he singlehandly sang 90% of all french song classics.. including 2 of the best love song ever written "et si tu n'existais pas" et "été indien"

The guy had à song about the type of ladies (the ONS style, the short term, the friends, the one that got away, the ones you marry).

Call me picky but I want à whole package. Good sex, good look, good personality... i go for the total balance. So I would date à 7-8HB physically, if she was a 9 in personality, and even 7in bed etc etc..

As long she satisfy.. i am all in. Otherwise time to look.

Yes, some girl who are ugly/terrible in bed could be great mothers. Wil the hot ones, would be terible.

You need to know what you want in a chick and if she wants to same. Some couples got together just for the sake of kids... yet they happy together, have kids who are wonderful etc etc... they had à commoon goal and could work it out through talks/actions.

But Yeah.. you gotta expérience.. and the ones youll be wild with... is likely not the one that will last (hence the songs)
 

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Indeed, there are a lot of songs for this topic and this aspect of it LOL
 
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