"Maybe after him"

[nroug7]

"I might go out with you after him"
Has anyone received this line before? It's complete BS, I just got it from one of my plates which I must say I did act reasonably AFCish with (I met her before I started investing in the confidence and improving stuff) and she just gave me this recently, to me this shows low or no interest (Not to mention the disrespect!), I'm assuming this is an indicator to stop the plate spinning, put it in a drawer that I rarely ever open and continue working on myself and spinning other plates.

Also, any good valid responses to this line in the future?

 

[iamnobody]

b_itch-slap her ego, something in the lines of
"Saving the best for last, heh?" or
"So... once you're dropping him off back to his mummy, you and I get to do adult stuff"
Just keep it light, don't show you're affected by this. And obviously, drop her. Walk out with your head held high.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

:crackup:

Yeah - the line is also a show of disrespect. Why you'd want to keep this plate around after this is beyond me. She's clearly showing a lack of interest in her statement to you. To answer your question, my response would have been sarcastic - "Ha! That's funny - you assume I'll still be around when you're done with him. Good luck with that!" - and that would have been the end of it.

 

[Uncharted]

Wow. I would just tell her "I don't think so" and walk away.

 

[bukowski_merit]

If she's dating someone - she's actually being disrespectful to him, not you.

Very egotistical of her though.
Forget here.
Move on.
Don't respond to texts/calls.
See what the future holds.

No slick little come back or words you say will make you look "alpha" more than silence and moving on.... Mostly any comment you make to her including all I see in this thread will still make you look angry/upset about it.

 

[om1xr]

She disrespected you and him at the same time . Personally i don't and won't accept disrespect from any girl no matter how hot she is.
and my answer at that moment will be : "Fvck Off, i don't settle for leftovers !".
Good Luck next time.

 

[Fly By Night]

I got this line in high school and I took it as a compliment lol. My friend asked her if she would go out with me and she dropped that line. I thought it was quite disrespectful to her current bf because she was implying that she was planning to dump him for me. Who says stuff like that?

 

[Uncharted]

I had to comment on this again. Wow what a b!tch. I don't think I would be able to talk to her ever again, haha. She totally dissed you.

One other option (if this ever happens again) is to go total alpha on her. It's pretty much a lost cause anyway, so tell her to F off and walk away, see if she follows you. She is probably going to be an attention wh0re though.

Or you could say "f that guy, he'll never know. Let's go out now." Then fvck her and never call her.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Laught and tell her that you're not into used goods, just have fun by saying it not look butthurt.

The tone of your voice can destroy her or make her.

Once there was a girl which I really liked and she got herself banged from an other guy then came to me but I got her anyway, I banged her as well and then told that I enjoyed the time spent
togheter but I would have rather have new stuff than get second hand one even if in acceptable conditions, and that if she was not previously used that would have been a deal.

Of course she insulted me in any possible way from my d1ck size to my manhood but I was actually having fun and told her it was nothing personal and that I would have considered her more than a fvck buddy
if having sex with her would have not be like throwing a salami in a corridor.

 

[nroug7]

Yes she was disrespectful to you.

But that disrespect pales compared to the lack of self-respect you have should you not immediately next this woman forever and in any or all cases.

Putting her name in a drawer says that you still value her after something like that. Walk away.

Already done so.