TrickyD
Don Juan
Hello all,
I've been involved in a somewhat of a relationship over the last week and need some advice...
In a nutshell, I've been seeing a girl from my job (I know... bad idea) who's 25 and I'm 30. We started off going out on a date a week ago (dinner, some pool, coffee) and ended up kissing at the end of the night! All systems go so far...
We hit it off so well that I called her the next day to say I had a good time and we ended up meeting for coffee that same night. Well, we progressed from coffee to making out in her apartment and have now seen each other for 7 days straight including some sleepovers at her place. And yes we've had sex already.... Here's where the issues for me comes in:
1. She pressures me for sex. Yes that's right, the tables are turned on this one. I wanted to wait a few weeks but she kept pushing the issue and we ended up doing it. I didn't mind of course but it gets tiring after while (she has a non-stop sex drive)
2. Not sure about LTR. Although she's asked me if there any GF/Wives/etc. lurking in the background, I still get a wierd feeling about it (like she may just be out for sex or a STR). Unfortunately, I'm starting to fall for her and I've made some bonehead moves as a result (AFCland here we come)
I want to see where this relationship goes but I need clarity (for myself) on the above 2 issues before I can emotionally commit. Any advice...
I've been involved in a somewhat of a relationship over the last week and need some advice...
In a nutshell, I've been seeing a girl from my job (I know... bad idea) who's 25 and I'm 30. We started off going out on a date a week ago (dinner, some pool, coffee) and ended up kissing at the end of the night! All systems go so far...
We hit it off so well that I called her the next day to say I had a good time and we ended up meeting for coffee that same night. Well, we progressed from coffee to making out in her apartment and have now seen each other for 7 days straight including some sleepovers at her place. And yes we've had sex already.... Here's where the issues for me comes in:
1. She pressures me for sex. Yes that's right, the tables are turned on this one. I wanted to wait a few weeks but she kept pushing the issue and we ended up doing it. I didn't mind of course but it gets tiring after while (she has a non-stop sex drive)
2. Not sure about LTR. Although she's asked me if there any GF/Wives/etc. lurking in the background, I still get a wierd feeling about it (like she may just be out for sex or a STR). Unfortunately, I'm starting to fall for her and I've made some bonehead moves as a result (AFCland here we come)
I want to see where this relationship goes but I need clarity (for myself) on the above 2 issues before I can emotionally commit. Any advice...