"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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May have went too direct on a girl

Ricky

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Met a hot girl online. Exchange emails, photos, all going well

Got her on chat a couple of times. First time was nice, tried to get her on phone she balked.

Second time on chat we had a really great chat and it started to turn dirty. No problem getting her on phone and I learn she's a real freak.

Now I want to take it to the real world. I talked about going visiting her and she seemed excited.

Now in our last chat which was back on IM she conveniently dodged my question about going there.

I think she's balking because she knows if I show up we'll have sex.

It is like 2 steps forward 1 step back with her.

Patience is the key I guess.

For the record, this girl is pretty interesting and has an awesome job. So I think I'll pursure this.

I'm just worried about being so direct and the sex talk, may make it difficult. But at least she knows the score.

She sounds like a freak in bed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ricky

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No I'm not stressed at all. I just want to do her. Plain and simple and I'm sure I will.
 
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