"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Max Contraction?

charlie brown

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John Little's book max contraction advocates very brief full body workouts( a minute ) and doing so only once every week. He reasons that a muscle needs only to be flexed in its fully contracted position w/ high intensity a few seconds and adequate recovery time to adapt and grow. Multiple sets for body parts and full ranges of motion aren't necessary and further stress the muscle youre targeting. John Little worked closely with Mike Mentzer on high intensity training. and Mike Mentzer trained dorian yates under its principles.

why dont many more people train like this if its so effective and convenient?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A possible first step, which is what they're describing: Weekly, full-body workouts is going to have unimaginable consequences to someone's body who's unfit.

It gets harder from there and a lot of sosuave's good advice chooses the middle ground: Advice that helps people who are just starting out or who've already climbed that rung of the ladder. Its universally helpful, as a consequence beginners might assume ss overcomplicates things.

The main thing you must remember is that all of the sane replies come from people focused on CONSTANT improvement, so it can dwell outside the beginner's first few weeks.
 

manuva

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I was initially taught this principle at uni, and I tried it for months only to conclude it doesn't work for me.

Still, I know a few guys who swear by it.
 
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