"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Max Contraction?

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John Little's book max contraction advocates very brief full body workouts( a minute ) and doing so only once every week. He reasons that a muscle needs only to be flexed in its fully contracted position w/ high intensity a few seconds and adequate recovery time to adapt and grow. Multiple sets for body parts and full ranges of motion aren't necessary and further stress the muscle youre targeting. John Little worked closely with Mike Mentzer on high intensity training. and Mike Mentzer trained dorian yates under its principles.

why dont many more people train like this if its so effective and convenient?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A possible first step, which is what they're describing: Weekly, full-body workouts is going to have unimaginable consequences to someone's body who's unfit.

It gets harder from there and a lot of sosuave's good advice chooses the middle ground: Advice that helps people who are just starting out or who've already climbed that rung of the ladder. Its universally helpful, as a consequence beginners might assume ss overcomplicates things.

The main thing you must remember is that all of the sane replies come from people focused on CONSTANT improvement, so it can dwell outside the beginner's first few weeks.
 

manuva

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I was initially taught this principle at uni, and I tried it for months only to conclude it doesn't work for me.

Still, I know a few guys who swear by it.
 
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