Crazy Asian
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i've read a few posts saying how both being mature and not mature are good and bad, so i'm sort of confused. but what do u guys think maturity is?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
davester88
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in my mind, maturity is the sense of knowing what to do at the right time. Knowing when to be serious and when to have fun and joke around is a very careful balance....
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Don't ask me kid, I'm 44 in the High School forum - what does this tell ya?
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you already experienced high school and are trying to help kids outLast Man Standing said:
