Maturity Gap Issues

[Konada]

I figured posting this in the Matured Man section would net me better replies.

Ever since entering university I've been messing wih a couple of 19yo broads (I'm a freshman too due to military obligations), granted its the best success I've got with women so far but I can't seem to make it past 2 dates before nexting them. Essentially I don't feel I can connect with them on the basis most of them because they still lack their direction in life, personally this is a huge turnoff for me when I find out they got nothing going on.

What are your experiences with 19-20yo girls and do you guys have the same feeling as I did?

 

[Desdinova]

Women generally don't hit maturity until around age 23 or so. However, landing women who are younger can put you in their "high score list" and make you a potential "soul mate", but that is entirely dependent on how high you jack up their IL. The better job you do, the more likely you'll be able to return to them when they reach a suitable age of LTR quality (23-27).

 

[sodbuster]

The woman who EVER grows up and quits acting like a teenage boy would is rare indeed. It's not QUITE like looking for a unicorn, but close. I know a FEW, but even then they will have a comment that I'm like "WTF? HOW did you LOGICALLY come up with THAT"

Women act on "feelings" and then back track to come up with their "logic"

I'd date one to have her around so the rare "unicorn" will see her and try to steal you from her.... and they do

 

[62Telecaster]

I'm 28 and live in a party school city...Just have fun and stop thinking about it. Most girls will be this way for quite a while still, so just enjoy the chase and gather experience for when it really matters (later on).

Also, listen to what these other guys are saying about age...at 28, I basically find myself fending off all the little 18-21 year olds all the damned time. These girls apparently do appreciate a slightly older guy who has his act together, which means that they will think of you in the same light later on even if it's not working for you right now. They may seem idiotic, but they apparently do think a little "bigger" than what you might be imagining. The 22-25 age bracket is still flakey and partiy-ish, but it's definitely a lot better by comparison and seems to work well for me in terms of striking a balance...sadly, any older than that, and I feel like they're just too desperate and in the midst of a "gotta get a man" type of quarter life crisis. Those who fall into the quarter life crisis thing will make you miss those annoying little 19 year olds...so be careful what you wish for and don't take things for granted.

Just enjoy life and keep racking up experience...you'll get there eventually when time allows you the chance.