"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mature Man forum has turned the corner...?
- Thread starter Slickster
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
Anyway some interesting comments here, but looks like Tenacity is still the same. I can agree with what the guy says, but you will never find a perfect woman. You have to determine if the number of problems or flaws is worth it if you're interested in a LTR.
I don't know if 1-2 of the other married guys who used to be around here are still posting, but I just celebrated 10 years of marriage with my wife. Overall I'd say things are going pretty well but I wanted to post something else in another thread about maintaining frame in marriage.