"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mature Man 2.0

Pumax

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You might ponder how the world is moving toward a software upgrade for men?

I'm not just saying that the red pill doesn't work, but I'm saying that women want what other women want.

And women are mostly moving toward what is healthy.

Her friend will also want what is healthy.

I invite you all to reflect and say what you think..

Found this on a forum:

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Healthy as in mental health? physical?

What is healthy and what isn't?

What are you referring to?
 

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Healthy relationships.
I quoted a comment earlier, but I noticed it’s since been deleted.
 
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