Ladies and Gentlemen,
I called this meeting for a few reasons. First of all, thanks to all of you for making the first four months of the Mature Man Forum a runaway hit. As one of the most tenured posters here, I truly appreciate consistent quality dialouge produced on this forum. Its almost reminiscent of the "Golden Era" of 1999-2000.....almost.
Anyway, as the moderator, one of the great things I've seen is that we've been attracting alot of older newbies lately. I'd like to hear from some of the older newbies as to why you chose to post here as opposed to the other forums. And also, tell me why you think this "mature" forum may be better for you to seek dialouge from than the main forum.....
....which segways into another issue. Which is, IMO, the content quality of the main forum has suffered. Older guys with better dialouge and more real life experience don't frequent the main forum as much, so that source of quality advice is being sapped away from the guys that need it the most; newbies under age 25. I had originally wanted this new forum to bring new quality to the site, not transfer quality from one forum to another, which may be the case now.
To help out, I've been monitoring all the discussions here and moving those threads I did'nt think fit into what we're trying to do here. For example, discussions about how to get a girl's phone number do not belong the Mature Man Forum, no matter how old you claim to be. What makes moving threads difficult is determining the context of what being discussed and deciding whether or not a topic is "mature" or not. One would think its common sense but its more subjective than that. An example of this is "eye contact game" by Player Supreme. Its an excellent thread, but does it belong in Tips? Does it belong in the Main forum? Its an attraction/seduction-based discussion, so it can actually fit into alot of places on this site. I eventually decided to keep it here because I consider "eye contact game" an "advanced" topic as compared to whats on the main forum. It was my original intention for the Mature forum to also be a getaway for those so-called "advanced DJs, and PUAs" being that this forum was as close to a "Masters-only" forum as Sosuave's ever going to get. "eye contact game" would help in that cause.
So to recap, lets answer these questions:
1. What is bringing older newbies here and how can we help them deveop in a manner that is specific to their needs as older men?
2. I'm considering getting real strict concerning some of the forum topics, mainly topics dealing with seduction and attraction. I believe these are universal topics with no age parameters, therefore technically not belonging here. However, if we want to be inclusive of "advanced" players and PUAs, I think we should include more "advanced DJ" topics. It'll provide some balance and keep this forum from getting too soft. Heck I'm married, and even I get sick of all these marriage threads. What do you think?
3. In your opinion, what other topics do you think should be allowed? What should not be allowed?
I'll sticky this for a week. Discuss!
I called this meeting for a few reasons. First of all, thanks to all of you for making the first four months of the Mature Man Forum a runaway hit. As one of the most tenured posters here, I truly appreciate consistent quality dialouge produced on this forum. Its almost reminiscent of the "Golden Era" of 1999-2000.....almost.
Anyway, as the moderator, one of the great things I've seen is that we've been attracting alot of older newbies lately. I'd like to hear from some of the older newbies as to why you chose to post here as opposed to the other forums. And also, tell me why you think this "mature" forum may be better for you to seek dialouge from than the main forum.....
....which segways into another issue. Which is, IMO, the content quality of the main forum has suffered. Older guys with better dialouge and more real life experience don't frequent the main forum as much, so that source of quality advice is being sapped away from the guys that need it the most; newbies under age 25. I had originally wanted this new forum to bring new quality to the site, not transfer quality from one forum to another, which may be the case now.
To help out, I've been monitoring all the discussions here and moving those threads I did'nt think fit into what we're trying to do here. For example, discussions about how to get a girl's phone number do not belong the Mature Man Forum, no matter how old you claim to be. What makes moving threads difficult is determining the context of what being discussed and deciding whether or not a topic is "mature" or not. One would think its common sense but its more subjective than that. An example of this is "eye contact game" by Player Supreme. Its an excellent thread, but does it belong in Tips? Does it belong in the Main forum? Its an attraction/seduction-based discussion, so it can actually fit into alot of places on this site. I eventually decided to keep it here because I consider "eye contact game" an "advanced" topic as compared to whats on the main forum. It was my original intention for the Mature forum to also be a getaway for those so-called "advanced DJs, and PUAs" being that this forum was as close to a "Masters-only" forum as Sosuave's ever going to get. "eye contact game" would help in that cause.
So to recap, lets answer these questions:
1. What is bringing older newbies here and how can we help them deveop in a manner that is specific to their needs as older men?
2. I'm considering getting real strict concerning some of the forum topics, mainly topics dealing with seduction and attraction. I believe these are universal topics with no age parameters, therefore technically not belonging here. However, if we want to be inclusive of "advanced" players and PUAs, I think we should include more "advanced DJ" topics. It'll provide some balance and keep this forum from getting too soft. Heck I'm married, and even I get sick of all these marriage threads. What do you think?
3. In your opinion, what other topics do you think should be allowed? What should not be allowed?
I'll sticky this for a week. Discuss!