“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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amoka

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Can somebody recomment some good books on mature behavior? At 27, I still find myself endulging in immature behavior. Specifically, trying to be funny when in actuality, I am not. Since this is a self improvement forum, I need someones suggestion on book. Thanks.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

amoka

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Amazing how no one have any book in mind.
 

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"How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a bit dated, but the principles of it are solid. The author is Norman Vincent Peale.

"Love's Executioner" is one of the best books I've ever read, though it might not be for you. I'm deeply interested in psychology and counseling, not everyone is, of course. It's about a well known psychologist/counselor and stories of his dealings with patients. It's a mind blower in how people put up barriers in their lives and how they overcome there. I highly recommend it, it's a quick read.

Hope those two help.
 

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The Four Agreements, by Don Miguel Ruiz.

Must-read for every mature man.

I ordered a book called The Ways of the Superior Man, by David Deida, which is all about embracing the natural polarity between men and women. Very pro-male book, at least from what ive read. Ill let you know when i finish it.
 

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author: Epictetus

both his "Manual" and his Discourses
 

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I just read I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell by Tucker Max and laughed out loud probably twice for every page in the book. Though, I think that might be the exact opposite of what you're looking for.

Some of the NLP books are interesting. Though, I found a lot of it didn't work for me at all.
 

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amoka said:
Can somebody recomment some good books on mature behavior? At 27, I still find myself endulging in immature behavior. Specifically, trying to be funny when in actuality, I am not.
what is wrong with trying to be funny? Is your humor immature? Or do you find humor in general as an immature thing? I am confused. One of the best traits in a man is his humor and ability to be funny. Laughter is the shortest bridge between two people.
 
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