"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Drdeee

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Plz point me to material or give me some help on conversations. Striking a conversation, keeping it alive, real basic stuff. I didn't have social life, thanks to gynocomastia, since 7th grade, so I'm stuck at real basic stuff. For example I can approach a guy or a gal, usually a guy, and ask for something. I even asked chicks for where to buy tickets but I was with a friend, alone I don't think I got the stuff. Though what I want is to strike a conversation with a random stranger, for example when I see a girl standing on the street, or something similar, and keep it going for a few minutes. Once I get past this stage, I think I will be able to apply PUA stuff and make some real headway. I need something similar in grandeur to the book of pook only relating to conversations, real basic stuff, like conversations for dummies.

My goal right now is to take step 1 in learning to talk to people. Forget about getting laid, let's keep it simple, and take one step at a time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The more you do it, the better.

Just do it. Talk to people. You don't have to entertain them, don't put so much pressure on yourself. Just say "Hi" and ask them questions.
 
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Sales jobs are easy to get and many of them would force you to do all of these things. You get good at doing anything by practicing. A great sales trainer named Zig Ziglar advised to "do what you fear most, and you will control your fear."
 
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I guess you could always pratice online, It's easier at first
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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