"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Material & help on conversations

Drdeee

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Plz point me to material or give me some help on conversations. Striking a conversation, keeping it alive, real basic stuff. I didn't have social life, thanks to gynocomastia, since 7th grade, so I'm stuck at real basic stuff. For example I can approach a guy or a gal, usually a guy, and ask for something. I even asked chicks for where to buy tickets but I was with a friend, alone I don't think I got the stuff. Though what I want is to strike a conversation with a random stranger, for example when I see a girl standing on the street, or something similar, and keep it going for a few minutes. Once I get past this stage, I think I will be able to apply PUA stuff and make some real headway. I need something similar in grandeur to the book of pook only relating to conversations, real basic stuff, like conversations for dummies.

My goal right now is to take step 1 in learning to talk to people. Forget about getting laid, let's keep it simple, and take one step at a time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheMFkingKraken

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The more you do it, the better.

Just do it. Talk to people. You don't have to entertain them, don't put so much pressure on yourself. Just say "Hi" and ask them questions.
 

Bible_Belt

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Sales jobs are easy to get and many of them would force you to do all of these things. You get good at doing anything by practicing. A great sales trainer named Zig Ziglar advised to "do what you fear most, and you will control your fear."
 

CaptainSK

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I guess you could always pratice online, It's easier at first
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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