“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SW15

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Seriously who tf meets a first date for ice cream haha. Thats something id just randomly do with a long time gf.
If you're both 15-20 and can't get into bars, ice cream or frozen yogurt could make sense. It's been a while since I went on a date with an under 21 woman or was under 21 myself.

Even if I was under 21, I can still think of better first date ideas than that.

Drinks are my standard first date. I'm willing to do activity dates if I know that the woman is going to enjoy one of the activities I enjoy. You definitely won't be able to determine that in swiping/texting and it's less common to determine that in a 5-10 minute cold approach conversation on the street/walking path or in the grocery store.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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the ice cream is not the point, the fact is i let it happen.
Its like what $5 to $8. Lol i don't see how that would have anything to do with her not being into you. Most people dont gaf about that kind of change.
 

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i cold approached her in target , that was the only bad idea
 

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Cold approaching in Target is a good idea. Better than swiping.
believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.

OLD can be very good depending on where you live.
 

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OLD can be very good depending on where you live.
It is shiit where I live.

believe it or not i get way more swiping, many of the OLD girls have came straight to the crib and first night lays too.
nothing beats social circle tho, the most i've ever gotten was when i was validated and everyone knew i fckd this hot nurse at work
i got many girls from that same job to come straight to my crib for drinks and got laid.
i still will cold approach if i see a girl i really really like tho.
Social circle is always best. I think the absolute best use for social circle is extended relationships of 12 months or longer.
 

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I mean this is all normal OLD stuff. You know how many i have banged first date who said all of this? All that matters is when she is infront of you and how she feels.
Meh, not my thing. Thanks for the opinion tho
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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