“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Matched on dating app with woman who says she is moving to my city

Sebastian0001

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How to proceed? She said she is probably moving to my city but not for another few months. We did a phone call and it was fun with flirtation and banter. She said she will be visiting soon to look at apartments but didn't have a plan yet. I called her a week later and she picked up and said let me call you back because I am in the middle of something. She then doesn't call back but instead texts 5-6 days later and says the following "hey sorry I didn't get back to you - want to do a video chat soon?"

What should be my next steps? She is attractive and fun so I have initial interest. I like that she is 33 and I'm 39 because I am trying to make a more concentrated effort to date younger women (compared to me).
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

EyeBRollin

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There’s nothing that can be done here right now.

Find out the date she is moving, tell her you will hit her up after that. Go no contact. Ask her out 2-3 weeks after she moves to your city.

Men, there is no point in chatting with a girl you cannot bang in the immediate near future.
 
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