"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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match...new flies in my web

Albatross953

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I love match, and I hate it.

Last month, no traffic. This month two sevens pulled in 24 hours. Yes, sweetie of course I'm not a player. Hiding my profile has everything to do with you. Its not because I've got what I want...multiple options.

Bang rinse repeat. Some days its sad so suave is darn right about women...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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goldengoose

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why would you pay to talk to sub par women for online dating?
 

Jaylan

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OP, you do know there are free OLD sites and even apps that give you loads more options?

And on the point about sosuave being right about women....its not that hard to lie to a woman in order to get sex and then ignore her. Guys have been doing that long before SS was around.
 
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Albatross953

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I'm aware of the options and implications on quality fellas. Call it a rhetorical comment.
 
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