MASTURBATION! Woo!

[LearningSlowly]

Alright, who has honestly gone no mb, and who hasn't? No shame, but we need to hold each other accountable on this.

I've certainly cut back, but I break it every 2 or 3 days. I gotta learn to say no to myself.

 

[Mindgamez]

Yeah me too I try to not mb and to cut on this. i used to do it everyday (sometimes twice a day, uggh) and now I try to do it less and less. My record was like 7 days but I couldn't go past that lol.

 

[bullethead]

my record was 39 days... one of my most successful periods of my life. I had so many girls all over me. I think what it is, is that girls have nut radar, so if you have a huge load of nut girls would somehow know and try to do anything to have it released. Don't do it, it gives them power.

 

[TheMusic]

Tried no fap december. Failed at day 23... But I'm gonna start over at the first of january.

 

[ohbe]

My most was 23 days but that was actually when I was feeling EXTREMELY down. Sometimes I might do it up to 3 times a day if I have a huge drive.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Today is my 12th day sober. I have to start getting social. It's more than just masturbation that can ruin your chances with women. It's also the way you view women, as objects while you continue to masturbate to porn behind closed doors, or as people, when you have to rely on real sexuality to get off.

 

[scudge]

I've gone 3 weeks at most. After the first week or so I get extremely pissed off for no reason though. There are advantages to both, but jacking everyday isn't the best idea.

 

[Amo]

Once I got over half a year. Mind over matter and all that jazz.

But nowadays I just do it occasionally (once every 2 weeks max) to keep my balls from bursting. Most things are fine in moderation.

Amo

 

[Jack Wealthy]

I didn't wank for about four months. I had no sex drive past the first month. Your body just starts to give up past a certain point, you just get wet dreams and nothing else. I was edging constantly though, don't do that ****. It messes with you.

 

[eastcoast15]

Why do you guys care so much about it?
I can guess the benefits but is it really worth it if you're gonna be having wet dreams?

Not hating on the whole idea but could someone with experience explain this to me?

 

[JBozz]

Does jerking off kill your sex drive?

 

[JBozz]

I jerk off like everyday is that bad?

 

[blokeinstrife]

good question. at the moment im 6 days dry, and for some reason i've got no urge to do it.having said that, wouldn't that mean that you wont be able to last as long if you havent 'practised', right?

 

[LearningSlowly]

I jerk off like everyday is that bad?

Same for a long time. Like I said, I cut back to at least every other day, but I've begun a two-week commited break.

Yes, it's bad, but not in a hurting-your-progress way. In a limiting-your-potential way. You will have an increased sex drive after quitting, you'll feel more motivated to get real girls. You can have awesome cvm shots. And really that's the most important thing.

 

[BPH]

If I don't fap at least once a week I tend to have a wet dream on some random day. And that screws up my sleep and I have to find new boxers so it's really not something worth striving for in my opinion, to go without masturbating.

I also read an article about how if you aren't having sex or masturbating you risk atrophy. Therefore I will not go without masturbating for extended periods of time.

 

[blokeinstrife]

Atrophy?!? how long ARE these dry spells? lol years?

 

[LearningSlowly]

If I don't fap at least once a week I tend to have a wet dream on some random day. And that screws up my sleep and I have to find new boxers so it's really not something worth striving for in my opinion, to go without masturbating.

I also read an article about how if you aren't having sex or masturbating you risk atrophy. Therefore I will not go without masturbating for extended periods of time.

Yeah. I'm going for every two weeks I will. I've made it two weeks in the past, but this is the first time I'm being serious about it.

It helped to look into Taoist sex stuff, semen is precious, because you always give your best energy toward the production of a child. You can't waste it. Since I believe in lots of other Eastern stuff, this is a very concrete way to correct my energies.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Ive gone without it since christmas (24th), not counting yesterday when I was high in bed.

On average, you lose 5 mg zinc per ejaculation. Zinc is obviously needed for testosterone production. It is also tricky to get in food.

Porn is death.

You get really tired after mbing.
Why would you go out when you can just mb at home?
the instant pleasure aids in forming an unstoppable habit, that gets more and more manifested per time. If you want to see if you have willpower, try going without it for 30 days (time for breaking a habit).
Wondering if its worth it? Try it for a week and try combining it with good foods (ie. salmon, aspargus, nuts, etc).

 

[Poonani Maker]

^^ agree wholeheartedly. If I click on porn, I'm 80% the way there to mbing. I've gone 6+ months last year, and about 3 months this year (because I was fvcking the same woman every week, swarmed with sex from her unlike any other - she was like a little serpent, pure evil) without.

If I ain't watching porn, I'm not going to mb, because I can have the real thing, and don't really care about imagining the real thing. Porn is make-believe. It's a heightened debauchery, a flurry of views you can't really obtain in person, one-on-one, with a woman. You can't see it all when you're on top of the object of your lust, thus it's more about love-making, UNLESS you're in an orgy, or in a 3-some, which I've only had the opportunity to play out once 2 years ago.

Another thing you can't get from porn is the Smell. A few women's as5es smell while in the midst of dogging her. Their breath smells, their cvnt. Porn is a lot about sound to me, fake overtly loud moaning. In person, you get much quieter, but Real, moans. I've videoed my conquests and mbing to that, while with not good lighting or angles in comparison, it's more genuine, though I like a good fantasy porn with all the amplified sounds and effects.

 

[Amo]

I could never really understand porn. I mean, I understand it, it just doesn't work for me really. I think it's the fact that it's fake gets me. I do wank occasionally (if I really feel I can't go without), but if I do, it's usually to a blank mind or if need be a picture of a hot woman. But porn doesn't have any attraction to me.