Masturbation better than sex? Going soft ...

[GaryNas]

Any of you guys ever consider it's because you're becoming desensitized to "normal" sex? I actually had this conversation (about softness) with a few guys from work and we agree that porn is partially to blame.

When I first started looking at porn I thought just a naked girl was great. Then I slowly "progressed" and now I'm at the point where unless a girl is getting absolutely slammed I just don't care. I found this transfered into my personal life. A while ago this girl was all into making out and ****, but that just wasn't cool with me. Even when she whipped out her big ones it still wasn't that great. I just sat there and wished I was looking at porn. Eventually I was so bored and NOT fully turned on I just went home...

 

[DEKKA]

Originally posted by GaryNas
Any of you guys ever consider it's because you're becoming desensitized to "normal" sex? I actually had this conversation (about softness) with a few guys from work and we agree that porn is partially to blame.

When I first started looking at porn I thought just a naked girl was great. Then I slowly "progressed" and now I'm at the point where unless a girl is getting absolutely slammed I just don't care. I found this transfered into my personal life. A while ago this girl was all into making out and ****, but that just wasn't cool with me. Even when she whipped out her big ones it still wasn't that great. I just sat there and wished I was looking at porn. Eventually I was so bored and NOT fully turned on I just went home...

maybe you're turing gay?

 

[jordanz]

Check out this site,your problems seem to be due to lack of sensitivity:http://members.fortunecity.com/tms3/

Although youprobably don't mastubate face down, the same principal (desentivity) may apply. You will need to retrain yourself.

 

[FreeStyleZ]

That link isnt working for me, or maybe its this unreliable campus internet.

 

[FreeStyleZ]

*******UPDATE******

I just had sex and was able to bust a nut. Oh yeah baby!! I actually think this one felt better than when masturbating, maybe cuz of the position or something, but i felt it all throughout my body. But anyway, onto the reason i was able to I think.

There was a medicine i was on back then which was known for prevent orgasm but i thought since i masturbated and nutted fine in like a minute or two that it was no problem. Ive been off that medicine for about 2 and a half months now and gradually have noticed that when i masturbate it takes not a minute... but maybe 10 seconds to start busting. So i started noticing a change in the sensitivity and had sex with a girl today. She was giving me head which felt good but i didnt bust off that.. but when i went to hit it from the back I nutted in like 1 minute. Even though being a 1 minute man is supposedly a bad thing, in this situation for me it was like a breath of fresh air and a GOOD thing since in the past i always would go for like an hour or two with not even coming close.

So it seems as though the problem was the medicine... and on top of that, i had masturbated the night BEFORE which was like maybe 12 hours earlier.. and was still able to bust.

 

[Avsguy01]

was it with the same girl?

 

[FreeStyleZ]

No.