bigjohnson
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Addvrz said:
Not getting out much eh?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Masturbation and Testosterone Levels
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Not getting out much eh?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
persiangino
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Real men don't jerk off too porn. Either you A. go find ***** to fukc or B. Jerk off using your imagination so you can atleast improve your sexual mental frame. Porn is really destructive to your inner game and your game in general and i agree with Kevin and his sentiments on feminists trying to lessen mens' agrressiveness. I mean really, men have become total pussies when it comes to women and porn doesn't help.
So now what do you guys use when wacking off without porn. I am a visual person, i need to imagine something or think of what i did.
what ive been trying is remembering some hookups in the past.. but that's only so-so.
mastrubation ... you feel contempt for these hoes as soon as you are done.
what ive been trying is remembering some hookups in the past.. but that's only so-so.
mastrubation ... you feel contempt for these hoes as soon as you are done.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Here's two opposing studies to think about:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/..._uids=12659241&query_hl=3&itool=pubmed_docsum
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/..._uids=12659241&query_hl=3&itool=pubmed_docsum
I'm not sure about the details of the study given by Vypros, but both of these studies have shown that over a period of weeks, there are higher testosterone levels in those who don't masturbate. I'm guessing it's because masturbation (and subsequent ejaculation) releases quite a bit of prolactin which will decrease testosterone levels. Prolactin in males causes sexual satisfaction and the refractory period after sex...increased prolactin levels will kill libido and make it harder for you to get it up.
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/..._uids=12659241&query_hl=3&itool=pubmed_docsum
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/..._uids=12659241&query_hl=3&itool=pubmed_docsum
I'm not sure about the details of the study given by Vypros, but both of these studies have shown that over a period of weeks, there are higher testosterone levels in those who don't masturbate. I'm guessing it's because masturbation (and subsequent ejaculation) releases quite a bit of prolactin which will decrease testosterone levels. Prolactin in males causes sexual satisfaction and the refractory period after sex...increased prolactin levels will kill libido and make it harder for you to get it up.
donjuanjovi
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If you showed me scientific evidence proving that frequent masterbation would take 10 years off my life. I would still FVCKING do it.
Vypros said:
I shower everyday. Am I addicted?
I check slashdot.org everyday. Am I addicted?
I check my email everyday. Am I addicted?
I glance at the clock without thinking about it every so often. Am I addicted?
Why the hell is it that every time I want to do the things I like to do it means I'm addicted? I can go without nearly anything easily if I had a reason but I don't.
Addiction is just another word that everyone uses that has completely lost all meaning because it's thrown around with abandon. "Depressed" is another one. You're very very likely not depressed; you're just SAD you emo motherfvckers. "Torrential downpour." Not every downpour is torrential!
God i've even heard people say they're addicted to chap stick.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If you can't STOP doing these things, then YES, you are addicted to everything you list here and probably more.mrRuckus said:
You can be addicted to checking slashdot.org.
It's a matter of self-control. If you can stop with no problem then you are NOT addicted, it's a HABIT.
You need to pick up a dictionary and read it. While you are at it you need to read some other books too, because you are the most clueless person here.
I just got tired of hearing people saying "YOU NEED TO CUT OUT MASTURBATION BECAUSE IT MAKES YOUR TESTOSTERONE LEVELS DROP!!!"Throttle said:
It's akin to people saying that masturbating will make you have hairy palms or cause blindness.
And you know, as well as I know that people say it around here all the time.
Truth of the matter is, if you aren't getting regular sex then you probably SHOULD be masturbating on a fairly regular basis for HEALTH reasons. It doesn't kill your libido or affect your testosterone levels signficantly enough to matter.
If masturbation is killing your game, then you have bigger problems than masturbation.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Call_Me_Daddy
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Masturbating does more than mess up with test levels.
It also ****s up the neurotransmitters because of the frequent stimulation to release endorphins (feel good chemicals). Also messes with the seretonin levels (helps with sleep regulation). Also makes the nerves that are hooked up to your penis more sensitive to stimulation so you orgasm faster.
The longer you do it, the faster you orgasm.
Don't believe me? Type in seretonin and masturbation into google. You'll get plenty of other surprises too. The effects are more widespread.
Wack off habitually at your own peril. It won't kill you, but you will have a wide array of problems ranging from lethargy to eye floaters.
It also ****s up the neurotransmitters because of the frequent stimulation to release endorphins (feel good chemicals). Also messes with the seretonin levels (helps with sleep regulation). Also makes the nerves that are hooked up to your penis more sensitive to stimulation so you orgasm faster.
The longer you do it, the faster you orgasm.
Don't believe me? Type in seretonin and masturbation into google. You'll get plenty of other surprises too. The effects are more widespread.
Wack off habitually at your own peril. It won't kill you, but you will have a wide array of problems ranging from lethargy to eye floaters.
Call_Me_Daddy
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What? No one is going to refute me?
What about "But its GOOD for you". Where you irrational wackos at? Did my facts hurt your brain?
What about "But its GOOD for you". Where you irrational wackos at? Did my facts hurt your brain?
typical
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There you go you losers that jack off need to go get a real woman or not blow your load until you get a woman. And trust me I've gone from a young teen that jacked off twice a day to a guy that would rather wait till he had a woman to release the tension and it feels way better when you do it with a woman then with your hand.Call_Me_Daddy said:
BTW just to shut up and haters what you guys need to do is go take up a physical sport and then ask your trainer or coach why they say you shouldn't have sex or any kind of sexual activity 24-48 hours before you play.
Reason why you don't is simple you don't get the feel good hormones being released into your body the tension builds up you get more aggressive. What hormone makes you aggressive ??? And what hormone makes you sexually active ???
My point has been made so now STFU and go get a woman already faggot.
Actually wait go jack off some more that way while your jacking off to porn or your imaginary woman in your head I'm going to go out and nail your bird for you OK.
"Don't Fu(ken tell me wanking don't do anything bad to ya with ya fancy scientific BS"
P.S I'd rather be slightly on edge cause of the tension of not getting any then sitting there feeling good cause I came in my hand from a good wank session, plus it makes me a better fighter and a better lover in bed when I do get a55.