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Masturbation...An interesting cause of AFCish behavior

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What do you guys think about porn versus fantasies?

I was talking to my AFC friends after a few too many beers about masturbation, and they both said they imagined screwing a girl rather than look at porn.

Both said they had vivid and intricate fantasies which due to their strong imaginations was 'just like being there'. One even had a particularly detailed and intricate encounter with a contestant from Popstars in black lingerie.

Surely looking at a naked babe is healthier for your mind than creating one inside your head?
 

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duke007,

Actually, exercising the imaginations is probably the most healthy exercise you can do. The imagination is rarely exercised, and for most people it becomes a dull and lifeless gray area of the mind that can rarely be put to its potential. Believe it or not, the imagination is like a muscle, and when exercised, it becomes more and more expansive. A strong imagination will not only allow you to create fantasies and pictoral images in your mind of great detail and vigor, it will also allow you to create your own reality and destiny in your life.

Most people have weakened imaginations. They have neglected their imagination, almost always because of fear. They are afraid of what their mind is capable of. They think they are a bad person if they imagine killing, raping, sex, escaping reality for some place better, etc. The fact is, the imagination is as limitless as you allow it to be, and when you put a cap on it, you limit what you can envision.

Because our visions are what allow us to create our destinies, the imagination is critical in doing so. I encourage you to take a few minutes every day, sit down, and simply imagine something totally original and unique. Create an image with your mind, close your eyes, add pieces onto it, watch it morph from one thing to another, see how complex and fantastic you can create it. Then the next day, try for something bigger and better, until you can literrally create any sort of idea in your mind.

Once you can do this, you have created the ability to brainstorm ideas and images in your mind better than 90% of the world. You will be able to think through problems with a greater deal of success because you have this huge limitless tool, the imagination at your disposal.

The master DJ uses his imagination spontaneously in encounters. It allows him to manipulate and use the situation to his advantage, by being creative and inspirational to all they meet.

Good Luck
 

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WOW! Thanks charm... that is some great advice. I have been wanting to excersize my imagination, but I didn't really know how to do it before. It is great to just start a story of any kind and let it play out with any damn thing that comes to your mind. It can be hilarious too.

This is what went through my head in a few minutes while I was in a quiet room with my eyes closed:

Started with guy from fight club in cave..
then a penguin came in and said his balls were cold...
then suddenly everything spiraled into hell and I saw the devil dancing around, and he whipped out his wanker and it was a red, 3-pronged penis.
He started dancing, and then he started talking like bush.. giving a speech, and he was wearing a suit, while at the same time he was squirting lava from his 3-pronged wang on Iraq killing everybody except for Richard Simmons who was smiling and doing aerobics.

I know that is really ****ed up and stupid, but it is the first time in many years that I have thought of something completely original out of nowhere.
 

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hahahahahahahahahah


DAMN!

thats fvcking excellent! :)

I meditate ( a lot less frequently then I would like to) but still, and I have a pretty extensive imagination. I agree it is very handy. Charm you have to give your AIM name or something, because I seriously think you and I could be good friends. :)
 

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I didn't wank for over a month and my game went sky high. I've been wanking A LOT lately, but my game isn't going bad or good either. I'll soon be out of high school, and just don't care anymore about seeing the same people I've seen, even if they are hott girls, for the last 6 years.
 

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alright....

I am going to give this no-masturbation thing a whirl. I tried once before, but gave it up before even doing it a week. I hope this helps me more than it hurts me :) :eek: :rolleyes: :eek:
 

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Speaking of no masturbating, I havnt been doing it for a whole week. And as of right now, I am increasingly more alpha, MANly, and DJish then before. I've gone without it before for like a whole month, and during that time I might add that I was invited to chicks house on saturday (she had a bf!), I was invited to "dance" with her, and I've had chicks on me in very strange and very fun positions... ;)

As soon as I did it, my game went down like.. a lot, I just got all lazy and wasnt as creative or charismatic.
 

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CHARM!

Do you know of astral pulse? They have alot of excersizes that are good for imagination.
 

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no, no ,no mastrubating doesnt have ANYTHING to do with you getting girls.

it is in your head. You think "i wont mastruabte cause i have no DESIRE for it (or for women on the screen). then your mind applies that concept in RL, making u indifferent to girls, and they are being silly and confused try harder.

but u can wank all you want as long as u know how to react to the REAL girls.;)
 
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