"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Masturbating is it healthy or not?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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From what some have said, they made it look like it wasn't essential to their existence, which is why I used smoking as an example. But it appears there's no definite line between what's good and what's not, if there is one. As you can even tell from the fact that everybody is coming up with "scientific evidence" that refutes somebody else's "scientific evidence." If that is the case, then even scientists can't decide on an answer. I'd almost have to agree with the mental aspect of it. It's probably going to affect you as much as you feel it will.
 

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Adone said:
All in all, I think this is too subjective of a topic to say that "masturbation is good" or "masturbation is bad". Try not to do it if you want and see if it helps you or not. It's all up to each one.
Correct.
That about sums it up for me.
 

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KoalaKing said:
"A WANK A DAY HELPS YOU WORK REST AND PLAY" :crackup:
Oh no, someone Down Under had to say it. You drongo! Please to be noting that we are laughing at you, not with you. :)

On this subject. Just to try something different, I've cut back to once a week for the last couple of months, usually after my socialising days and nights in the week have been used up (i.e. when Sunday or Monday rolls around).

Not noticed much difference except slightly more spare time and I enjoy the withheld release more.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It is perfectly healthy.

At the WorldSuccessAlliance we recommend you masturbate 2-3 times per day.

You may think this is crazy but it actually rids you of desperation.

Trust me. If you do not, then ask Krassus, he told me this himself.

I am actually on number 4 today. It makes me very relaxed when I speak to women and men.

-Kershkov
 

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WorldSuccessAlliance said:
It is perfectly healthy.

At the WorldSuccessAlliance we recommend you masturbate 2-3 times per day.

You may think this is crazy but it actually rids you of desperation.

Trust me. If you do not, then ask Krassus, he told me this himself.

I am actually on number 4 today. It makes me very relaxed when I speak to women and men.

-Kershkov
I don't know who the fvck this guy is :D
 

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4 TIMES A DAY??? RELAXED AROUND WOMEN???? ARE YOU FVCKING KIDDING ME??

I just made it 23 days without wanking it once. I was so witty, and looked at every single woman like there couldn't be a way in hell she didn't want to get in my pants. I couldn't hold it back though after I watched some real hot video of some chick. Now I feel like my eyes dart around and my voice is up really high. Might be the last wank I EVER have.
 

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Note: BAC is >.08%...let's start the show.

I thought I would add something to this interesting thread. I have a minor (major) n!pple fetish. However, recently, it's been less of a turn-on and I haven't had the drive to search for said fetish photos. This lead me on a quest to see if I could stop glazing a knuckle for a few days. Well, Sunday was the last day I made a mess on the desk and WOW...

It seems, after reading all of the replies, that going from one extreme to another makes the most difference. Starting around Wednesday, I've found myself more flirtatious and less concerned with being overtly sexual. (Hell, I asked the coffee cart girl, "do those jugs have any milk in them?" [I asked it in a casual way to slip past the pervert radar].) It's been a rather interesting experience in that you can connect with women on a different level. I guess what it comes down to is Gunwitch's method. It's much easier to picture yourself with a woman after a week of masturfasting (masturbation fast) than 13 hours after the last squirt. I've spoken to more women in the past week than I have in the past year.

So, is masturbation healthy? Who knows. The jury's still out on that one. Does abstaining from it make you more manly? It depends on the man.

I think quitting a "bad" habit for any length of time opens your eyes to another world. Quitting smoking has given me the ability to go to sleep without staying awake trying to get that mass of phlegm disloged from the back of my throat. Not jacking it to some chick rubbing ice cubes over her nips has made me more aggressive in the pursuit of women.

One thing that seems common to EVERYONE is that holding out for too long leads to a dive in testosterone which leads to lack of drive chasing females.

C’est la vie
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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