"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mastery Series Ii ? Doc Love?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Look. All you need is one thing and only one thing to be sucessful with women, and that is Pook's post "kill that desperation" and all of his replies in the thread.'

I am serious. Don't waste your money. Dr. Love is a ripoff. If you really want to invest in someone I suggest Investing in Dr. Dennis Neder's Material.

He is a wonderful man, who truly cares about helping other people. It is my experience that Dr. Love is just in it for the money.
 

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Originally posted by Matlm
Look. All you need is one thing and only one thing to be sucessful with women, and that is Pook's post "kill that desperation" and all of his replies in the thread.'

I am serious. Don't waste your money. Dr. Love is a ripoff. If you really want to invest in someone I suggest Investing in Dr. Dennis Neder's Material.
Exactly what of Doc Love's System is a ripoff? Which section(s) don't you agree with?
 

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I'm not saying the "system" doesn't work for people.

What I am saying is that knowledge should not come at a price. This is just one of my governing values, and everyone is entititled to his or her opinion.

Everyone is different, but for me, the most helpful information I have ever received was from Pook.
 

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Originally posted by Matlm
I'm not saying the "system" doesn't work for people.

What I am saying is that knowledge should not come at a price. This is just one of my governing values, and everyone is entititled to his or her opinion.

Everyone is different, but for me, the most helpful information I have ever received was from Pook.
Well, Dr. Neder is selling his knowledge for a price. What's the difference? If people find the information viable why shouldn't it be sold? Colleges do it, newspapers do it, cable television does it. If there's a market for it, why not sell it, especially if people are willing to pay for it?

Just something to think about.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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