Masters of SS, will you please teach everything about Confident Persistence?

[gdathrowaway]

I have read about the importance of persistence in being with women. However, this has become one of my weakness since it hasn't worked for me before I learned about pickup (i.e. what I did was actually being creepy and needy). Now, I never tried persistence ever since. This means that if a girl doesn't reply after two or three texts within two weeks or so. I delete her number and then forget about it.

But then I've read about confident persistence in Chase Amante's book and bradd80's "Secret Guide To Mastering the Don Juan Way of Life", so now I'm wondering, what is it? Where is the balance on this? What does it say about me if I don't persist with women, even if I do persist on making my other visions happen? What does it tell women if I don't persist on them? What else do I have to learn about this thing called "confident persistence"? What are the tests or evaluations that I could do to myself to see if I'm already going to far? I know that I would learn a lot by trying this one out on field but I also have other things to do, so I might as well cut my learning up to speed by learning from the masters along with my own trial and error. And hell, I don't think theories wouldn't hurt me since I am still just a few steps ahead from being a newbie or maybe just a lower-middle or mid-level Don Juan.

Thanks a lot.

 

[GotED?]

I think there is a HUGE difference in KNOWING when to be confidently persistance, and when you become a phucken moron chasing the wrong woman with it.

It all boils down to ATTRACTION - if the woman is not interested or attracted to you, your persistance becomes 'chasing' (a big no no for DJ's). You are just wasting your time and being a moron then - then you get labeled as 'creepy' by women who don't want your attention.

Experiences dictates a DJ will only spend time and energy on women who are HIGHLY ATTRACTED and INTERESTED in YOU. All else, gets NEXTed. The abundance mindset says so - there are way too many other women you can meet, why get bogged down trying to figure one out if she doesn't make it easy for you.

I have encountered women who put up some resistance (B!TCH SHIELD) in the beginning - however, showing some high level of INTEREST. If so, I would just ignore her for a couple of weeks and contact her again. If she doesn't behave, NEXT and NC forever.

The thing is, most women would rather stay SINGLE (subconsciously) than get their B!TCH SHIELD penetrated by a man. Women's greatest fear is GETTING HURT - this resolve prevents them from falling in love, only certain men will get past this - there is NO RULE on how to do this, if you are the right man - then the persistance will win the day.


Be well.

Exodus

 

[gdathrowaway]

Thanks for giving me a block of knowledge to build up my experience even more. But, here's a problem I encounter: Women go hot and cold. One time they'd be so close to me, and the other time, they'd go no contact at all. It's fine. I get it and all that women do this to secure you (my inference is telling me that one reason they're dragging this for long is they're doing their best to turn you into some long-term ****), although sometimes it gets into my head, though I'm not reacting based on it.

Now, back to my follow-up question: How do I calibrate their attraction? I need advanced stuff on this one as I'm already aware of the many basics and have seen them all (or maybe almost) in real life.

Thanks again.

 

[GotED?]

Thanks for giving me a block of knowledge to build up my experience even more. But, here's a problem I encounter: Women go hot and cold. One time they'd be so close to me, and the other time, they'd go no contact at all. It's fine. I get it and all that women do this to secure you (my inference is telling me that one reason they're dragging this for long is they're doing their best to turn you into some long-term ****), although sometimes it gets into my head, though I'm not reacting based on it.

Now, back to my follow-up question: How do I calibrate their attraction? I need advanced stuff on this one as I'm already aware of the many basics and have seen them all (or maybe almost) in real life.

Thanks again.

I get women blowing HOT & COLD all the time. My solution? I just NC her for a while - sometimes she will start the chase, sometimes I will just forget about her after that 'a while', or sometimes I will reconnect with her.

I don't let a woman play games with me - this is her attempt to put you in HER FRAME. It is a WAR in the beginning between a man and a woman.

You have to figure out how you want to run your BATTLES - which leads to the outcome of the WAR. I don't have much patiences for games at my age - but you have to decide how much you respect yourself and go from there.

A woman who knows you can walk away - will respect you way more than a man who worships and pedestals her for attention (and get FRIENDZONED).

There's little you can 'recalibrate' attraction with a woman after she has seen and talked to you - you MUST have your game at 100% right in the beginning (how you dress, style, talk, humor, charm, eye contact, etc). You can not RECALIBRATE after you have phucked up really - it is the same for you meeting a woman and already deciding her fate in the first 5 minutes. Work on yourself before you attempt again.

Exodus

 

[gdathrowaway]

Hmmm. I think I'm getting it. Now, I'm reminded of another paradox here which I had to solve. I remember going NC on a chick I met at the library. NC is even a weak word for it, because at this point, I have already totally forgotten about her. Then just yesterday, she went to "brush along" on my way so we could say "Hi" or something (we know women do this; they don't go direct to catch our attention). So this means that after all those months, she still remembers me while I have totally forgotten about her.

Now, if I try to get her contact number again, wouldn't that be the same as going into her frame? What do you think is the most DJ way to handle this situation (this doesn't just happen once to me, I've seen this happen twice or thrice or maybe even more so I think this is not a rare situation for you)?

 

[GotED?]

Getting her number is showing interest, not into her frame. When she sh!t tests you and plays games, that is different then.

You will only know her interest level by getting her number, and subsequent steps (getting dates). Everything else is a waste of time trying to figure out a woman - which you NEVER will.

Exodus

 

[gdathrowaway]

Hmm... Ok. So what I should do is show her my interest and see if she will reciprocate. And my ultimate test of interest would be dates and numbers. That I can do and already did (enhancing quality is what I'm going after now). Now, please help me corroborate this information with Pook's idea of patience. If I come on too strong and ask for a date quickly wouldn't that appear just as desperate? Wouldn't texting once in a while be a good thing first before asking out a date so as to build some degree of comfort? How do we establish this level of comfort along with sexual tension?

And I also get easily affected by girls not replying to me if I text them once. I feel like if I text them once more, I am already my personal masculine grounding. How should I handle this along with confident persistence?