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didnt know where to post this but since u probably jerk off the most in highschool..........
this might sound kinda gay but i was just wonderin how do you guys feel after masterbating? i know after i bust a nut i feel angryy and upset. I feel like i hate jerkin off.... yet for some reason as hard as i try i cant stop myself from porn or masterbating... Why do i feel like a loser after i masterbate? do u guys feel like this too sometimes? I become too emotional lol

another thing is i heard that masterbating is bad for your health... is this true and if so, how?
GIRLS DO MASTERBATE DONT THEY!?!? i know ALL guys do but what about girls, its hard to believe that they dont....
 

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one of my best friends is a girl, she recently confessed to me that she began masturbating for the first time when she was eight. EIGHT! she felt so wierd after that first time she didn't do it for a whole year again till she was ten. TEN! She hasn't looked back since. She does it sometimes 3 times in a day, or some weeks not at all.

Then again, i know another girl friend of mine, who watches porn all the time, but doesn't masturbate what so ever. she has a boyfriend, but they're not having sex. I JUST KNOW.

anyway, everyone is different, with different cycles and different sexual tendancies. just depends. But let's just get this one thing straight though.

ALL GIRLS THINK ABOUT IS SEX. Whether it's by themselves or with friends they are always flirting with each other or talking about someones penis, or what they did last week with a guy.

Every girl is a slut, even if they don't know it yet.
 

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Originally posted by hb
how do you guys feel after masterbating?
It feels like stress relief.Masturbation is cool when you're stressed.It's quick and effective.

Why do i feel like a loser after i masterbate?
It's because you look at porn. Try something different, try masturbating without porn in your bed and fantasize about women you know. You'll feel satisfied.And your orgasms will be more intense.

do u guys feel like this too sometimes?
Yes.All the time.Just have to cut off the porn.

I become too emotional lol
What do you expect? Masturbation IS about emotions. It's your deepest (sp?) secrets come to the surface.

another thing is i heard that masterbating is bad for your health... is this true and if so, how?
How are old are you? It's only a myth. I would have gone blind by now and my hands would be full with hair.

GIRLS DO MASTERBATE DONT THEY!?!? i know ALL guys do but what about girls, its hard to believe that they dont....
Yes, about 60% of the girls masturbate. They ain't no holy spirits. According to me ex, all girls masturbate.
 

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Yo dude chill!
95% of men mastabade and believe me, very few confess to others they do so.

Rubbing your hand on your stick does no harm to your physical health, and it does relieve stress. (except rubbing too hard and the skin peels of.......... Kiddin:D)

http://www.jackinworld.com/
find out more at JackinWorld, there is everything you need to know and you wanna findout how gals do the equvalant.......?:D :D :D it is the right place for you!!!

i dont think jackin 3 times a dayor more is good......... exercizing too often releave stress but also the kick to approach women..... gals... watever....

try to let it build for it will give you the motivation to approach females and have close physical with them(you pervert you....)
:D
 

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some comments: I think masturbating has some influence on your charisma. It's like after you've done it, and a few hours later you go to a party, that you're not as succesfull as a DJ as when you haven't masturbated in a whole long time. I dunno, but it's like girls can sense it if you just have masturbated, and no, they don't smell the sperm coz you've washed yourself before going to that party...:D Oh and btw, don't ever confess to a girl that you masturbate, the most of the girls I know think it's pathetic, I dont know how that is in the US, but when a girl finds out that you never masturbate, her interest level in you rises (I think because you have to have a lot of stamina to not to masturbate for months, so she will see you as a strong person). Sorry if it's bull**** that I've written here, but it's because of the language-gape that I cant express my thoughts very well.

Greetz
 

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El Brujo, I must disagree with that...My whole philosophy on life is to have as much fun as possible, and girls don't even figure into it. It just so happens that girls dig this and find their way in becoming part of the fun :)


But when you don't masturbate, your too horny. You get desperate, and girls can feel it.
When I do masturbate, I find that I dont tend to get *as* horny when out, and so the fun can begin :D


I see it as a drug, you feel the need to take it and get a hit, and when you stop, it's insanely hard to give it up! More addicitve than crack!
 

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After i'm done whacking it, i have to turn off porn cuz it disgusts me. I usually find most girls disgusting also, so it helps me keep a level head. It's a good release!
 

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I masturbate at least once daily. Even if I wind up getting some. However I do it 99% of the time out of boredom. Its something that takes 3-4 minutes out of my life. If I have to go hang out somewhere and I'm ready to go and there's 5 more minutes before I leave, I whip out my **** and beat it off. Rarely do I do that more than once. When I first discovered it around 12, I would beat off probably 5-10 times daily. I had no real social life so there was always time for some whacking off. At the time I used aftershave and my parents for a year thought I never showered and just used cologne to cover up the smell instead. Now I just use saliva to do the deed.
 

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Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
After i'm done whacking it, i have to turn off porn cuz it disgusts me. I usually find most girls disgusting also, so it helps me keep a level head. It's a good release!
I've the same problem. I really hate it!
 

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But when you don't masturbate, your too horny. You get desperate, and girls can feel it.
-->But why are you so horny? Because you think of sex all the time, and when you think of sex all the time, you think of girls all the time, so you j3rk of with pretty girls in your phantasie, so, with other words, you give the ladies a lot of power, because you need them for your fun (And THAT is what girls can sense).

Stop thinking of sex all the time.

Since a few years I'm interested in the Yoga System, ways of controlling your emotions and bodyfunctions. So, I once read that when you masturbate, you loose life energie, and that life energy is what gives you your male-charisma. Now you don't have to say: "Oh but that's all new-age bµll****!", but you can see it in a psychological way. think about it. I saw in that text that there is an exercise to make that sexual energie transform in male charisma, and believe me, after practicioning that exercise, it worked, I could control my hornyness (I could get hornµ if I wanted too, but I could allso stop it, and believe me, you have a lot of power when you can control your urges). Girls use boy's their sexual dependance for their own ways, they take advantage of it, they use their body to make you all horny, so they can get what they want. Is it you that want to have control? then you first must control your own desires and wishes. IF your dependant of many things, other people can use those many things against you. Maybe this is a bit pessimistic or so, but that's life. It's all about power.

Damm, I really need to study my english better, I feel like I can't express what is inside my head. BTW, Is there anyone on this forum who comprehends dutch? Let me know something.

Greetz
 

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yea i was thinkingf about that also, so i tryed to stop

ahh i went 3 weeks, and wehen i did it, it blew to the top of the troposphere, hahahahah naw jk

but yeah i just try and prolong my jerking! like only on weekends or somethin.
 

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Yeah, and also: it's been a long time that I watched porn. I think guys shouldn't be so dependant of feminin nudity. It just gives them too much power.
 

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PiHi playa, yooo thats exactly how I feel and some times i get so disguisted i get mad at myself.. After I finish masterbating, i swear to myself that I'm never gonna do it again lol.
I first discovered porn at 5, and i been jerking off since 9, i remmember thinking to myself how do i feel the same sensation that this guy is feeling when he is f***ing and then i thought of making a whole with my fingers and imagining it was a p***y going up and down, lol kinda funny that i discovered it like that.
Did the rest of you's discover it like that too?

I whack off only twice a week and almost only on the weekends...
I cant whack it without porn.......
i heard that its bad for your complection.
 

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PiHi playa, yooo thats exactly how I feel and some times i get so disguisted i get mad at myself.. After I finish masterbating, i swear to myself that I'm never gonna do it again lol.
That's what I'm trying to say! When you're not horny, that's the real you. When your horny, your mind gets clouded and you can only think about one thing: Come Come Come.... This makes you do things you would never do when if you weren't horny. Pathetic things. I'm not saying masterbating is pathetic, but you have to cut down on it. I used to know a guy who always had spermspots on his pants... I think THAT'S pathetic.
 

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Originally posted by hb
i heard that its bad for your complection.
Not true. One of my friends does it nearly twice a day according to him, while I haven't done it...now who do you think has clear skin and who has acne? He has the clear skin.
 

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Well I guess that's why men don't like to cuddle after sex.

The first time I discovered masturbating was when I was ten, (I couldn't even come yet. ) I just heard someone on the radio said the vagina was like a dead end unlike anal sex (the show was loveline) so I took my palm curled it like a whole then put my other hand on top of it, and hit the head until I had a wierd sensation and I couldn't touch myself for 10 minutes! ( by the way this was to Angelina Jolie)

That is how i discovered masturbation.
 

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Welcome... to Rosy Palm... and Five Friends: ;)


another thing is i heard that masterbating is bad for your health... is this true and if so, how?
It's not bad for your health. However, if you do it too rigorously, when you do have sex... it could take you up anywhere from 45-1 hour before you blow... or in some cases... not @ all. Which believe me... (especially for the girl) is not a fun experience. So if you are going to masterbate, remember... do not be so rough on your member... he has feeling to you know.

GIRLS DO MASTERBATE DONT THEY!?!?
Of course... I know a couple of girls that masterbate... heck, I even got a girl to do it while I was on the phone once.

ALL GIRLS THINK ABOUT IS SEX.
Very true.

Every girl is a slut, even if they don't know it yet.
Everyone is a slut... and they know it... they just do not want to admit it (I'll explain further later)

But when you don't masturbate, your too horny. You get desperate, and girls can feel it.
I beg to differ... I do not masterbate, and when I was younger it came to the point that some girls almost thought that I was gay because it never seemed like I was horny. I mean... I make a lot of innuendos... but I never come off as desperate to women. In fact... whenever I tell girls that I am a virgin... most of them are surprised.

I don't know... I think my libido is somewhat broken or something... for some reason... I just don't see it. I don't see the pleasure of pleasuring myself. I don't know... I just can't do it. Even if I am watching porn... I don't get that urge to just start whacking... I'm such a wierdo.

The Matrix: Reloaded
 

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Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
After i'm done whacking it, i have to turn off porn cuz it disgusts me. I usually find most girls disgusting also, so it helps me keep a level head. It's a good release!
duhh!! eeveryone feels that way because they released all of their stuff that makes them like girls! thats why i dont like to masturbate anymore...it makes me feel shy and that i dont want to talk to girls...oh well maybe its just me, but i always try to stay away from it!!
 

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I don't masturbate. I don't know why I don't, there is no religious thing or medical thing to explain it. I always used to feel rele out of place about it. I mean all my friends did it, so I'd try and just give up. Maybe I have no imagination! I just... got bored. Its not even that i found it sad or "naughty"....just...boring. I've never come from masturbation.

At the time I was sure there was osmething wrong with me. Now I don't care. I come when my girl sucks. So I don't feel like it's a big thing, still, I used to!

So, to any of you guys who read this and sypathise, maybe wonder if there's something wrong with them don't worry about it. You probably just need a girl, which is fair enough in my books.
 
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