"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Besides bidding in the last minute.
Got any good strategies



I found an INSANE deal. But theres 6 days left, and im afraid, as usual, someone will **** it up and pay more then they need to.

THERE ISNT EVEN A RESERVE ON THIS ITEM.

If i bought it new, it would cost me upwards of 700 dollars.
What do you think i should put as my maximum bid???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Strategy? Bidding at the last minute is the only way you will beat anyone else. There's no "bid two dollars now, two tommorow," just "bid at the end, before the other people have a chance to raise their bids." As for maximum bid, bid what you would like to pay for it. There will always be more auctions of the same item, and unless the item is One-Of-A-Kind you will eventually get it for the price you want if you wait.
 

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What do you think i should put as my maximum bid???

Depends on what it is and how much you're willing to spend (obviously), it seems you don't want to tell us what it is 'cause someone here might screw it up for you, so I can't say a lot about how much I'd spend on something used that originally costs $700. I mean, by default I'd say if it's used, it should by reduced by at least 50%, but that's just me.
 

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Try contacting the seller and make him an offer if he'll end the item early. Some will, some won't - tell him that you'll give him $600 for it, shipped... let him negotiate it to $700 if he doesn't agree to your original offer. Or, you could just hope you have the highest bid.
 

m4a1

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Originally posted by diablo
Try contacting the seller and make him an offer if he'll end the item early. Some will, some won't - tell him that you'll give him $600 for it, shipped... let him negotiate it to $700 if he doesn't agree to your original offer. Or, you could just hope you have the highest bid.
He said if he bought a new one, it would cost him $700, why should he negotiate a used one for the same price?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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....... stupid f*ckin morons already bid up to 170. ****KKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKk

i hate stupid people.
 

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Auction sniper.
 

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Use proxy-bidding. Where you bid your highest amount you're willing to spend & then everytime someone tries to outbid you it keeps raising your bid for you (until you reach the highest bid).
 

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if u know anything about ebay its that if something has 6 days left and u say its $700 new, and its at $170 now

then it will go to 700+ trust me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thanks for stating the obvious. And no the guitar will not go to 700 LOL.



No thats dumb, the point of me being on ebay is to get a good price.. not be the highest bidder no matter what. Plus when you do max bid, someone is eventually going to outbid you, ESPECIALLY if you do it early. If you only want to pay 200 theyl keep goin up till they beat 200.


Please only respond if you guys know what you are talking about.
 
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