"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Master Don Juans?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Mistic
Senior Don Juan
I would say, as a new rule, the mods should ban you once you reach 500 posts. There seems to be some presumption of wisdom that goes along with post count and years on this board. Nothing could be further from the truth.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Actually there's no way to seperate people who get that many posts in 2 months vs 2 years in the ranking system.
If I'm a Master DJ that's kind of sad lol. But actually I don't think anyone takes the ranking system seriously. A large number of posts doesn't seem to have any advantage it just makes people call you a KJ if you disagree with them. So I actually agree with PRMoon.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Lets ask mods if they can do this . It would be a lot better .
But , ive seen that when you're MDJ , new members respect you a lot more .
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