"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by dead_romeo:
A newbie section sounds good, I agree that that advanced topics and begginers should be given equal importance, but first you have to seperate them.
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If there was a newbies section, I would spend most of my time there. Newbies are so much fun.






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CASANOVA

"You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you."
Eric Hoffer

"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."
Voltaire

"Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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We need to stress for people to read the bible.

I'd like to see a lot more responses to posts that say "Read the DJ Bible" and then close the thread. It would save us a lot of time for posting the same stuff over and over. I don't think a newbie section would help. Nobody posts in the right place anyway.

Then again, I realize it's a problem for moderators to keep track of stuff that often. I'd volunteer to help but I don't have the time to browse the boards more than once a day.

Raising the # of posts for master dj is a must though. I haven't been here that long, and I don't think I'm a master dj at all and I'm almost up there. (There are also a lot of people who have it that don't know sh!t in my opinion but I won't name any names.)

Just my $0.02

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"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom
 
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