"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MASTER DON JUAN speaking....

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I consider myself a MASTER DON JUAN to your standard...but I have this problem not really. I can only get the very hot girls. I have trouble getting the average girls. A total 10 or the hotter she is the better chance I have of getting her or her getting me. But an average girl that I find cute...I have a sort of fear aproaching and when I do approach its a 3 out of 10. Anyone here have the same experience. I doubt it...any suggestions that would make sense to me write...write...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Perfect10

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Hehe, mr "Master Don Juan". If you're such a master, why should that be a problem to you? Perhaps you're too ****y when you approch them? Thought about that?

Ok you got owned. Now the real advice:

It's because when you open 10's with your confident attitude, she will respond to it very well cause she's at that level herself.
When you pickup not so hot girls, you should be too ****y cause it hurts their feelings because the don't have the same level of confidence as the 10's. Simply said: Don't neg 7's-8's as much as 10's.
 

sodbuster

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Be more low key with the 8's. If they feel you are too much higher than they are,they think you are only after them for sex and they have no chance for a relationship. The 10's think you are their equal and they have a chance at a relationship if they want one.
 

ZhaoYun

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I'm surprised this thread even got any responses. This is stupid.

Can get 10's but not regular girls? There's no such thing. Also, if you're so good getting 10's why downgrade at all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mothballs

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Do you normally have intelligent conversations with the 10's? I'm guessing no. Now I'm not saying that there aren't smart good looking women, just that a lot of them don't apply their minds when they can get by on looks for most of their lives. It sounds like you need to work on your confidence in having good intelligent discussions... or stick to the vapid airheads.
 
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