master dj's needed

[dice]

ok i really need some advice on how to handle this girl. i know it sounds corny but i think i met my soul mate by fate. i got a flat tire in front of the house, and i was trying to fix it when her and her dad pulled up and asked if i needed help. they then invited me in and offered me food and made me feel at home. the father left us alone and we sat and talked for like 2 hours.

shes only 17 and im 20 so i was hesitant to get the # but i gave her mine when she askd if i could get percs. shes the cutest girl i ve seen in rl and i cant stop thinkin about her. anyway, my question is how should i handle this. ive been thinkin of my options:

1- just wait and c if she calls me for percs
2- leave a thank u note for all their help with a rose or somethin saying call me in there door or mailbox
3- same as 2 only w a gift cert to the restarant i work at for her and her dad

thx i know this is corny but i really need input from u guys as this girl is something special to me. how should i handle this?

 

[flexion_]

Go and thank her for the help in person. Ask her for her phone number. Call her up and ask her out.

Don't do any of the options you suggest.

 

[dice]

y not

 

[penkitten]

go to her door when you think she is there
knock
say i just wanted to thank you for all of your help the other day with my car and i was wondering if you would like to go grab a burger or take a walk in the park or whatever floats your boat that you wanna do
smile

 

[Best friends? NAY]

Because 2 and 3 will probaly make you seem like a dork speacily beacuse "this girl is something special to me"
That means be extra cool or your going to turn into a wuss real fast.
Listin to flexion_

 

[brucevangeorge]

Just say something like: "you seem like an interesting girl. id like to get to know you better, lets grab a burger/ice cream/whatever the hell youre thinking at the time.

DO NOT LET HER FILL YOUR THOUGHTS. dont **** it up. stop thinking about her. youre obviously obsessed by her. its unnatural, its unhealthy, it will lead to faliure.

meditate, practice your favourite hobby, do whatever to focus and clear your thoughts. NOW!!!

 

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PLEASE dont ever write "master DJ's NEEDED"!! again... everyone in this forum needs help!

 

[dice]

what should my purpose be? should i try to kiss her or just conversate?

 

[NewMan]

Dice, Relax.

If you want to thank her old man for helping you - then cool. Cruise on over - and thank HIM - not HER - she didn't do sh#t expect sit on her a## and look pretty. If your gonna man up, then thank her father - and go over to do that and just that. No expectations.

Now, he seems like a good guy, so he will probably invite you in would be my guess. So you cruise in and hang out - and indirectly your going to see this chick again.

You see, going over there saying thanks, and by the way, does your daughter want to go get a burger - is about as weak and transparent as you can get.

be sincere.

When you see her again, game on. But don't start being a wuss about it - plain and simple. Invite her out to see a movie.

Just remember, your 20, she's 17.

 

[speedo_meme]

stop thinking so much

 

[spider_007]

ball is in her court. wait for her to call, and then ask for her no and ask her out.

 

[dice]

seriously ty all for ur help

 

[dice]

wow i have **** luck, i went over tonight (friday)at like 730 pm and like someone said, the father invited me in but she was sleeping. i didnt even mention her but i sat and talked to the dad for like 15 mins. i hope he mentions to her that i came over maybe shell call me

 

[penkitten]

she was sleeping at 730?

 

[RockstarPUA]

This in not fate. Its coidence.

If you have the mindset of 'shes my soulmate' your doomed already...

get her number, call her up.

 

[dice]

she just calld me.. i dont think ive ever been as confident as i feel right now.. all thanks to great advise ty all sincerely

 

[Q-Pid]

Originally posted by dice
i think i met my soul mate by fate.

No you didn't. You don't know someones soul before you know their mind and body. A 2 hour chat cannot accomplish that.

Originally posted by dice
shes the cutest girl i ve seen in rl and i cant stop thinkin about her.

You should stop thinking about her. Otherwise when you're with her you'll think too much.

She is not the cutest girl you've ever seen.

Originally posted by dice
this girl is something special to me.

No she is not. You wanted to sex her and your hormones are telling you shes "special". She's just another cutie.


What do I reccomend? Stop thinking, stop worrying. She's three years your junior - it's not a challenge. She's obviously keen (she called YOU - nice one!) so just be cool.

Let us know how it goes.