"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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master djs. kind of a different situation here.

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i agree with everyone saying you made one of the most basic mistakes in relationship game. never ever ever ever never ask a girl to be your girlfriend. I did it before when i was younger and it didnt work out very well. i learned from that and haven't done it since. You want the girl to be complaining to you, asking why you won't tell anyone shes your girlfriend. Asking YOU when you are going to be a couple.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zunder said:
I',m no master dj mate, in fact I've gone back to bootcamp after an awful episode. But a HARSH lesson, and so basic, that I have learn't is....never never ever ever ever be the first one (if at all) to express your feelings to a girl...never.
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lol i didnt even read your post and yet mine looks so similar to yours
 
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