"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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master djs. kind of a different situation here.

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i agree with everyone saying you made one of the most basic mistakes in relationship game. never ever ever ever never ask a girl to be your girlfriend. I did it before when i was younger and it didnt work out very well. i learned from that and haven't done it since. You want the girl to be complaining to you, asking why you won't tell anyone shes your girlfriend. Asking YOU when you are going to be a couple.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zunder said:
I',m no master dj mate, in fact I've gone back to bootcamp after an awful episode. But a HARSH lesson, and so basic, that I have learn't is....never never ever ever ever be the first one (if at all) to express your feelings to a girl...never.
lol i didnt even read your post and yet mine looks so similar to yours
 
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