Master DJ efficient use of Eye Contact Formula

[chicksrock]

To master Dj's out there,
when your talking to a chick,
and doing the whole ****y and funny thing
the whole flirting thing
the whole kino thing
and the whole building rapport thing

how much eye contact do you actually use in practice
Coz in reality I have observed that if you over use eye contact the chicks get scared and nervous and look away..
can it ever get to a point where too much eye contact works against you?

or is it perfectly safe..and do as much eye contact as humanly possible/
?

 

[chicksrock]

Eye Contact is the only part of my game that needs perfecting ...
HELP ME PLEASE someone....
I want experienced users input in how they use the eye contact game..

I want to know exactly how much eye contact you use

eg..
keep looking at the eyes
she will look away
then she will look back at you in the eyes
does this keep on happening ..... does she just keep looking you in the eyes ..
does the chick have to get used to looking at you in the eye?

 

[chicksrock]

I guess i need to do more experimenting with the eye contact thing

Do you DJ's make a HUGE CONSCIOUS effort to make eye contact?

 

[Microphone Fiend]

I give EC whenever I am talking to her. If I'm giving Ec and she starts to look away, I'll keep looking around and if she continues, I'll just look around like I'm bored of her.

EC is the kind of flirting that keeps the chick guessing and wondering of your intentions. So don't be afraid to look her straight in the eye at any time, it really builds attraction. Give Ec when it is convenient on your part tho, don't be the guy who turns around every 5 seconds to look at her. If she crosses your path, then you can look as much as you want.

 

[xblitz44x]

Your going to screw things up not because you're eye contact 'game' isn't good, but because you're evaluating and analyzing every friggin thing about it. You're too concerned with the superficial surface level 'things to do' instead of just being comfortable with who you are and marketing your true self.

Most likely, you're going to go in there, appear nervous, fake, and self-conscious because you have a billion and one "mechanics" running through your mind. And even the ones who are ALREADY ATTRACTED TO YOU, are going to detect this and *nothing* is going to come out of it. Then you'll go back and analyze each piece more, thinking that it had to do with 'eye contact' or '****y funny' when the truth is that you were over analyzing the things that really don't matter when it comes down to it, and blinded yourself so that you couldn't see the gimmies that were handed to you.

 

[chicksrock]

xblitz44x you are absolutely right
but I am very well aware of this

I strike of my own personality and charm and works like clockwork and I was able to get chicks attention just with this

When I found out about the tool of EYE CONTACT, I realized that it is very powerful and effective if used right..

In my opinon being C+F, charming, etc should be just assumed.
to Really pick up your DJ game I think one should work on EYE CONTACT and I want to do it right !

anybody else with more EyeContact experience and how they do it their way / ?

 

[M. Powered]

Originally posted by chicksrock
When I found out about the tool of EYE CONTACT, I realized that it is very powerful and effective if used right..

Well, yeah, but the best way to implement EC is forget about the "tool" and just enjoy looking into the girl's eyes. Think to yourself, "I like looking into this girl's eyes" and listen to what she's saying while you're keeping the EC. You may be looking right at her, but if you're visably pre-occupied with the "game", or you look stary, or the rest of your face is giving some other message, it wont have anywhere near the same effect as a relaxed EC that shows you're interested in looking at her. EC with a smile works a treat.

And if you have to look away for the sake of comfort (if you're relaxed and not creepy then this shouldn't be a problem), then look sideways or above briefly, but never down.