"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Massive Problem Getting Motivated

guittarjedi

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I have major difficulty getting motivated to do anything. All week long I make plans for the weekend and I end up being content with just watching t.v. and surfing the internet all weekend. Has anyone overcome this kind of problem?


-guittarjedi
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sexy_kuta

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you can get motviated from any where man

u just gotta get out and look real close.. u can even get motivated from here,

but if u have a problem gettin motivated then you have to suffer, maybe you will relize that u want better, thats a common way to get motivated
 

Climax

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Get up... and go!

1) Get into the shower

2) Put some nice clothes on

3) Get ready to go out and party

4) Stick to the plans that have already been made

5) Get in car and go

6) Party the night away

You are probably saying "duh" to the above list... But my point is that when you are at home you are in your comfort zone, so you WILL find that you will get lazy and just feel like lying in bed and watching T.V. or surf the net. What you need to do and PUSH yourself out of that comfort zone and get your azz into that shower and get yourself into some nice clothing and get your azz outta your comfort zone and out there where the party is. Trust me, after you are dressed and ready to go, you will FEEL like going out.

Try it;)


Laterz...
 

Wiesman44

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Nobody can tell you how to get motivated. Thats something you need to figure out for yourself. No forum will help you.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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I find the problem is that you just cant be bothered to get ready! Sometimes when i am tired i cant be bothered to go to bed just yet because it means having to brush my teeth wash my face and get changed first. Just tell yourself that befoure oyu decided whether you go out or not you will at least get ready to go out. I would be willing to bet money that once you are ready to go out you will want to go out.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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