Im telling you guys. Don't sell yourself short. Be selfish.
I spent the best part of 3 years making excuses for my gf. She was insecure and i gave her a fool's pardon for things i would never have believed id have put up with.
In fact she cheated on me with her ex after 1 1/2 years and somehow begged me to take her back. I gave her the chance even though it ripped me apart.
Deep down i knew the girl i wanted to marry wouldn't have done that. I sold myself short. I went against my gut. I took the easy way out despite having constant doubts about things for there on.
All well and good
But as soon as she was having doubts about the relationship she starting ****ing my life up. First she started going out with her friends loads and basically being really inconsiderate. She wanted space and had no regard for me at all. Yep, after me giving her so much leeway in the past, she then turned on me. Ironic but hey, you should learn to expect this from the weaker species.
I learned the hard way guys.
I also learned before i lost my remaining self-respect. As soon as she started asked for space, i was the one to walk away. She wanted to meet up but i said, walk on. After me having many sleepless nights about what she did (amongst MANY other things) and consistently fighting doubts in my head, on a whim she wanted a break. Unbelievable really, considering the history.
Girls are all the same guys. I thought this one was different, but they arent really. They'll leave you when you're down. They'll be selfish beyond your comprehension.
Its sad but its true. Dont sell yourself short
Dont make excuses for them because you can be sure they wont make any for you when you need them most.
Not all, but girls are fair-weather partners, i suggest you be too.
I spent the best part of 3 years making excuses for my gf. She was insecure and i gave her a fool's pardon for things i would never have believed id have put up with.
In fact she cheated on me with her ex after 1 1/2 years and somehow begged me to take her back. I gave her the chance even though it ripped me apart.
Deep down i knew the girl i wanted to marry wouldn't have done that. I sold myself short. I went against my gut. I took the easy way out despite having constant doubts about things for there on.
All well and good
But as soon as she was having doubts about the relationship she starting ****ing my life up. First she started going out with her friends loads and basically being really inconsiderate. She wanted space and had no regard for me at all. Yep, after me giving her so much leeway in the past, she then turned on me. Ironic but hey, you should learn to expect this from the weaker species.
I learned the hard way guys.
I also learned before i lost my remaining self-respect. As soon as she started asked for space, i was the one to walk away. She wanted to meet up but i said, walk on. After me having many sleepless nights about what she did (amongst MANY other things) and consistently fighting doubts in my head, on a whim she wanted a break. Unbelievable really, considering the history.
Girls are all the same guys. I thought this one was different, but they arent really. They'll leave you when you're down. They'll be selfish beyond your comprehension.
Its sad but its true. Dont sell yourself short
Dont make excuses for them because you can be sure they wont make any for you when you need them most.
Not all, but girls are fair-weather partners, i suggest you be too.